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I've seen your sister naked
Confidence really. I used to not open up because of my weight problem. That was more of an excuse I think now it's just I have no idea where to start.
understand, your have to be comfortable with yourself first. Where to start, always a good question, first is the ice break is what the hell do I say to the women, honestly its never easy for anyone maybe if you get a few beers in you. Small talk is always the best you want to get her interested but don't want to bore her with your life, if your not a good speaker listening is always good get her talking about herself more. Just find something to comment on and if shes reply in a good way just take it from there
I feel like I just did doctor phill show
not a bad article
How to talk to women in bars and clubs
http://www.bullz-eye.com/relationships/double_your_dating/2008/072408.htm