Months later, I want to give my two cents.
I can see understand why facials are sexy to people. For me, a woman receiving cum is natural. It is in the male sex drive to give cum to her. A Man's cum is an extension of themselves and seeing a woman happy to worship his cum will make him happy. Facials are just one form in which she can worship him. To some, this is a way of establishing dominance. Your cum
On her makes her yours.
Now, in my opinion they are way overused. For the most part, I do find facials to be disrespectful BUT I have known men and women who do facials with mutual respect. I do not like messing up a face. I would like to be able to kiss a lover in the end and cum on her face is not sexy for me.
Cumshots are ways for us men to give women our cum in a safe manner. Even when we use condoms we can take them off to give her our cum without fear of STDs or risk of pregnancy (Note some STDs can be transferred topically). Externally, I prefer seeing cum on breasts. I find cumshot on big milky tits to be hot especially if rubs it in. And I could still kiss her.
In porn, the cumshot is a must because it is proof that he had finished.
But in real life sex, I don't find myself wanting to pull out. I think I'm not alone in saying that I prefer to cum
In her. Being swallowed is very hot. In porn, this can be done and displayed if she has her mouth open. Of course, this can be a health risk if partners are unsure of their health.
Another way to finish is the most classic in history: pussy creampie. Much higher risks such as pregnancy can happen. The big Promblem with pussy creampies is you don't see the actual shot. But a dripping pussy can be hot.
And then there is the other one: anal creampie. I enjoy seeing anal creampies. Again you don't see the shot but can see her squeeze it out.
And when you squeeze out any creampie, she can still play around with it: rub it in her tits, face or she can eat it too.
Again, my two cents. Thanks to all those who have responded. I would like to see others discuss this too.