None of the above. In fact, penis size, penis "talent" and jizz amounts have very LITTLE to do with a woman's satisfaction and you "standing out from the crowd". While having a small dick, one that shoots too early, etc, CAN be something that ruins it, having a dick that works usually doesn't rock a girls world. Its all mental dude. Anyone can have a huge dick, or spunk alot. It takes a guy with charisma, the ability to turn you on mentally, the knowledge of how to please a woman and how to make her toes curl....and being a gentleman after the fact doesn't hurt ya either. I look back on all of my past lovers and the one that stands out the most had an average to small sized cock (compared to the others) but jesus, he knew how to get my whole body going. Had absolutely nothing to do with his dick. Without even taking off his clothes, he made me crave it. He got into my head, made me FEEL like a sexy woman, and he had confidence (not to be confused with cockiness).
Anyhoo, off my soapbox. These threads make me shake my head in disappointment lol.