I met this girl at the gym- we're hitting it off at the gym fairly well- but I'm 12 years her senior - and I also do not have that great of a job (telemarketing)- I told her what I do- and it didn't seem like she was not impressed - I don't own a house or anything, I'm not materialistic- I don't own any gadgets (Blackberry, laptop, I phone). She's pretty hot though. It's not like I'm a bum or anything. I work- I'm just not the career person that has a "real" job (no company car, suits, or laptops) - I value time more than money, to be honest -we have a lot in common though- she actually came up to me. But young chicks want money/stability- I have a lot of love to give believe me, but not a lot of "jack" ..How do I read this chick.. go for it- or is she a head game playuh and just let her go?? Am I over-thinking here?
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Can You Have a Crappy Job and get chicks?
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Vanilla Bear
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If she liked you before, but doesn't anymore, because she now knows you don't have much money then she is not worth the worries.
You shouldn't want to be with a girl that only wants your money and stuff.
If she really likes you and is a good person she will like you anyway.
The only girls that are 'allowed' to only like you for your money...are prostitutes.
You shouldn't want to be with a girl that only wants your money and stuff.
If she really likes you and is a good person she will like you anyway.
The only girls that are 'allowed' to only like you for your money...are prostitutes.
Hot Mega
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Any guy can get chicks as long as you're in reasonably good shape. Chicks are not that different from guys in that the first thing many of them notice is your physique.
Some guys kill me who won't do a push up or a crunch but wonder why hot chicks pat them on the head and keep going.
She came up to you...Just be yourself...and don't start getting self-conscious and nagging her with what you don't have. Just be a gentleman and use some of that extra time you claim to have to show here a reasonably good time.
When we meet people..usually you're meeting 3 people in one...who they think they are, who they think you think they are and who they actually are....Don't fall into the trap of trying to be who you think she thinks you are.
Some guys kill me who won't do a push up or a crunch but wonder why hot chicks pat them on the head and keep going.
She came up to you...Just be yourself...and don't start getting self-conscious and nagging her with what you don't have. Just be a gentleman and use some of that extra time you claim to have to show here a reasonably good time.
When we meet people..usually you're meeting 3 people in one...who they think they are, who they think you think they are and who they actually are....Don't fall into the trap of trying to be who you think she thinks you are.
GregCentauro
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We can't give you any advice. We're merely pixels. We know neither you nor that girl. If she's a shallow bitch, she's not worth the effort. There might still be a chance she's a good girl. Then go for it! It's for YOU to find out.
Good luck, mate!
Good luck, mate!
Facetious
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Rey C.
Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Like Hot Mega said, don't project onto her. Be yourself. And if she likes you for you, and you like her for her... You Might become the richest guy on this board. Especially when there's an age difference, do you have any idea how hard it is to find a girl who doesn't have $ signs floating around in her head somewhere? You Might have found a diamond, my man! Go for it! :nanner:
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If you just want to fuck, then you can find women who go for money. Not ideal, but if that's all you want, then sure, sometimes it impresses. But women like other things too.
But if you're looking for a partner, money is the last thing you want a woman to notice about you. I mean, don't be a cheap bastard with her, but don't try to impress that way either.
The best women long-term are frugal. If you get serious with a woman and she doesn't want to talk about money and budgets, then she's not responsible enough with it.
But don't worry about any of that shit now.
But if you're looking for a partner, money is the last thing you want a woman to notice about you. I mean, don't be a cheap bastard with her, but don't try to impress that way either.
The best women long-term are frugal. If you get serious with a woman and she doesn't want to talk about money and budgets, then she's not responsible enough with it.
But don't worry about any of that shit now.
STDiva
I'm too lazy to set a usertitle.
If I have $5, and Chuck Noriss has $5...he has more money than me.
tartanterrier
Is somewhere outhere.
Go for it Howie - You only live once so don't let the boat pass you by
skechers
Everyone will be famous for 15 minutes.
Yep. And don't talk about your job too much if you know it's boring. I'm in telemarketing, it's how I make my living at the moment. Next topic.
Just be your charming self, and don't internalize the whole situation. Be here now, not in your head worrying about what you're saying and how you're coming off.
busenbust
^^^^
I think that one can, but the trade-off is that s/he too will, by necessity(?), have to have a 'crappy job'. She's hot? Ok, fine, she likes you? Go out for a meal, the cinema etc. and take it from there. And - Go Dutch
[I'm not materialistic either: 6 and a half years and I still am undecided about my next laptop purchase:1orglaugh Or fucking sad:o]
Wade Wilson
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Just be yourself and don't sweat the small things.
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