Can't go long enough

[anti hero]

So I've been with this amazing woman for about 6 months now, we've decided to move in together. We've talked at length about it, and although I haven't officially proposed, we share an understanding that we're going to get married in the not-too-distant future.

She's a sweet girl. I love her to death and we have the most amazing intense sex ever. And she buys me movies and video games all the time and cooks for me and she's pretty much just the perfect girl. She even watches porn with me.

The problem is, as amazing and intense as the sex is, it never lasts quite long enough. Even when I'm really on my game, she never quite "gets there". She's come really close several times and all I needed was maybe an extra 30 seconds but she does this thing with her hips that does me in every single time.

Is there anything I can do with this? I can make her come in other ways, of course, and we always do that. But I really want her to have an orgasm the old-fashioned way. And we're so freaking close.....is there a pill or something that I can take that will help it last longer without killing the erection....or a strategy....or anything?

 

[Galactic]

I find a condom helps me to last a lot longer than going at it without. Other than that, try thinking about other things when you are banging away.....baseball, school, work, anything to keep your mind off of the task at hand. Also, if you feel you are getting close, but she has a way to go, one thing I do is pull out and let myself "calm down" a little....you can then use your hands, mouth, whatever, to keep her going until you are ready to go back at it.

Good luck! It's an age old problem.

 

[Baill Inneraora]

Spend more time at foreplay. Personally I don’t even start thinking about the deed until I got my gf off at least twice during foreplay. Also, if you do that you will be under less pressure when you actually start to go at it.

 

[SonOfSparda]

Spend more time at foreplay. Personally I don’t even start thinking about the deed until I got my gf off at least twice during foreplay. Also, if you do that you will be under less pressure when you actually start to go at it.

And by foreplay don't go down on just her pussy, i've heard alot women have the best orgasms after they've had massages, soft caresses, kissing alot even lightly on thier neck etc. etc. do that get her horny deprive her of the touch down stairs and it will feel better for her, then get down to work and you may see an improvement but it can take about 15 minutes purely on her to get her to that point.

 

[GabberMan]

Do her from behind with you both lying on your sides. She or you can finger her clit really well to "come up to speed" so to speak, and you should last much longer too. But at the same time, in this position, you will be thrusting into her with your cock in a direction that favours friction against the front of her interior which should make for a more powerful orgasm on her part. It might be a little uncomfortable for you which means you'll go for longer.

Works for me and my wife anyway. Have fun!

 

[Torre82]

I've found the best aphrodisiac... the most successful turn-on ever.. give her a platinum line of credit.

Ooh, let's play a sexy game! Okay.. one.. two.. three. Oh sorry. Plastic beats panties. I win.

::thrust thrust thrust thrust::

 

[lostwood_7]

If she's into sex toys, get her a classy one made by Lelo. That way she can or you can use on her. They do the job well...or do what Torre82min does...plastic beats panties anytime

 

[ekansenol]

These are two separate things: how to make you come later and how to make her come sooner (or come at all).

The first one is easier - it's a matter of exercise and experience. When you're almost there but you see she's not quite there yet, pull it out, clench your teeth, breathe deeply. Apply some mind techniques, as mentioned above. Rinse and repeat.

As with her coming, it's more difficult, because it doesn't only depend on your performance, but also on her psyche. How much she trusts you and lets herself go. And how much she is in harmony with her body. Helping herself with her hand is probably a good idea. Can't help you much here, bro, every woman is a mystery...

 

[ChefChiTown]

So I've been with this amazing woman for about 6 months now, we've decided to move in together. We've talked at length about it, and although I haven't officially proposed, we share an understanding that we're going to get married in the not-too-distant future.

After only 6 months?!?!?!

I don't think your "game" should be your biggest concern.

 

[CRock]

DANGER... WILL ROBINSON!!!

I was with a girl like this and every time we had sex, I had this same thing on my mind. She was cool with it but it always bothered me.

I would ask her if she's had a hard time throughout her sexual life or if it's only with you.