Desperate measures

[Will E Worm]

Not wanting a cock in her arse is an entirely reasonable standpoint. Do you want a cock in yours?

I am not into guys and I am not a female.

Biazzarely enough, if she let me have other women, I wouldn't respect her or love her so much...
Life wasn't meant to be easy you know...

Come on, now you're copping out on me.

You know you want to be a polygamist.

:tongue:

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Not wanting a cock in her arse is an entirely reasonable standpoint. Do you want a cock in yours?

This is exactly it. You gotta look at whatever you want sexually like this - would you let her do the same to you if it was what turned her on or got her off? If the answer is no, then its time to back the fuck off and deal with not getting what you want. No point acting like a whiny three year old who doesn't get his way - its about loving and having respect for the person who makes you the happiest.:2 cents:

 

[TheOrangeCat]

I am not into guys

I believe it was Nietzsche who said 'you lie, ya boo sucks ..'. Or was it Einstein ...?

 

[JayJohn85]

Man before you go nuts and buy a device for yourself.....Have you tried extensive foreplay and made use of gels and shit man....And slowly eased her up with fingers and shit

Then when in there go slow and shit till she is used to it....I am sure if enough care is taken she would get used to it perhaps even like it unless you are extraordinary big in which case your fucked. Oh yea use a rabbit or dildo in the front or something too I read somewhere porn stars prefer anal when some other guy is ram rodding their vagine

 

[squallumz]

if it makes you feel better i never get my girls ass. i want it but she wont give it up.

ive been halfway up there twice in like 8 years. im hoping one of these days we'll give it another go.

i can hope, right? sometimes, when i get upset about it, i do think, well, at least she gives up plenty of oral and takes it on the face. i guess it makes up for it.

 

[vodkazvictim]

I am not into guys and I am not a female.



Come on, now you're copping out on me.

You know you want to be a polygamist.

:tongue:

I used to be one. But this gal is different.

Man before you go nuts and buy a device for yourself.....Have you tried extensive foreplay and made use of gels and shit man....And slowly eased her up with fingers and shit

Then when in there go slow and shit till she is used to it....I am sure if enough care is taken she would get used to it perhaps even like it unless you are extraordinary big in which case your fucked. Oh yea use a rabbit or dildo in the front or something too I read somewhere porn stars prefer anal when some other guy is ram rodding their vagine

I've tried pretty much everything. She just really doesn't like anything in her arse, even if it aint hurting her. Thinks of it as dirty.
I've tried fingering her arse while kissing the kitten to loosen her up and get her turned on to it.
I've tried letting her go on top and easing down at her own pace.
I've tried starting, then stopping the whole thing the moment it starts to hurt and going to vaginal sex, so that she doesn't fear it.
I've tried getting her drunk (she drinks SO slowly, especially compared to me)
I've tried lube (of course)
I've suggested using a toy to stretch her out first, but she refuses 'cos it makes her feel dirty.
I've tried going slow with her (I normally go slow at first, but she always just tells me to hurry up and get it over with. Sadly, 'cos then it hurts her.)
I've tried using Vibros and fingers on the pussy as I go in there.

I'm thinking next I'll try a lil light local anaesthetic, lol!

if it makes you feel better i never get my girls ass. i want it but she wont give it up.

ive been halfway up there twice in like 8 years. im hoping one of these days we'll give it another go.

i can hope, right? sometimes, when i get upset about it, i do think, well, at least she gives up plenty of oral and takes it on the face. i guess it makes up for it.

Just makes me feel worse for you. I get plenty of oral too. She lets me splat her in the face, but I feel guilty if I do it without a blidnfold and get her eyes (I originally joined this site just to ask everybody how I could stop cum in eyes hurting - no dice) but if she does wear a blindfold then I can't see her amazing eyes. Catch 22.

I'm just hoping that as she gets older, she'll get looser and dirtier.
I think it's better to go slow and hope for the best than charge in and be forcefull. After all, I can always choose to change tactics and charge in and be pushy later.

Yeah you can hope. I know I'm hoping! Lol.

 

[grower_boy]

How good can a relationship be if you feel the need to sodomize your partner? :1orglaugh