Does this happen to you? (Ejaculation Question)

[DevinnLaneLover]

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and I am deeply committed to her but I seem to have a problem. I sometimes have a very hard time ejaculating unless I'm thinking of all kind of sexual images. Sometimes watching what we are doing does the trick, but other times I have to think of porn, fantasies, etc...

Has this happened to anyone? Does it happen a lot?

 

[dave_rhino]

It happens to me all the damn time. Infact the first time i had sex i had to think of my ex girlfriend going down on another chick... The image of that was better than the sex i was actually getting.

Maybe the sex is just getting too boring for you? 3 years is a long time.

You should try to spice it up a little, your thinking of these "fantasies" while your doing it... Why not just tell her your fantasies?! She might be up for it! Then you can actually act it out without having to just picture it

 

[pussypoppa]

Is she Loose?









Just kiddin, its best to try and visualise your fantasies when having sex, it should make it easier for you to cum

 

[Iamforever]

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and I am deeply committed to her but I seem to have a problem. I sometimes have a very hard time ejaculating unless I'm thinking of all kind of sexual images. Sometimes watching what we are doing does the trick, but other times I have to think of porn, fantasies, etc...

Has this happened to anyone? Does it happen a lot?

its not for me to say, but i think you watch way too much porn.

 

[Peter Gazinya]

Have you tried anal?

 

[coolap]

maybe the "Flame" is wearing out...and you're not really in to her anymore to begin with?

 

[Dro50]

At least your not thinking about the girls best friend.......The porn thing I feel is very normal...just don't let it be someone...real.

 

[CryingDivinity]

its a typical problem...somone told me Men need something new after awhile... Try a different position or try adding some new style to it.

 

[squallumz]

let me see if i can get this straight..

you cant cum unless you think of something dirty?

sounds normal to me. what i think is going on though if its enough to be a problem is youre thinking about it too much! i bet youre fucking her and then just concentrating on trying to bust one so hard youre turning the sex into a some what stressful activity. i used to think about what was going on too much and i also had that problem so i found myself thinking about other girls or images in my head, fantasies and situations.

you gotta try to relax and not think about cumming so much. it will happen NATURALLY, all you have to do is try to enjoy the sex and not concentrate on what youre "supposed to be doing" or doing wrong.

as soon as you can let go and just enjoy being in her and the physical pleasure that goes with it, and just get into the zone, (listen to her breathing and watch her enjoy it,) the easier and automatically you will be able to cum. dont think about it so much!

 

[nazgul88]

all the time.. i don't know why

 

[accessspecialex]

Every tried dressing up, or some role play?

It doesnt have to be anything really hardcore, ie rubber/wips, but I'm she'd be into something fun, such as secretarial (she wears a tight fitting white shirt, tie, very short black skirt, perhaps tights, no knickers though (thats a rule!!!), and you wear something like that maybe) or tarty, or football-cheerleader.

It'll make it fun, you'll both feel that the other has really made an effort, and it makes sex a real event, something to look forward to. Then, when your just having normal sex, you can think of that and you would feel bad at all cos your thinking of her.

 

[Buzzboy]

Same here guys.

Sometimes, not all the time, I can't get off even I'm thinking of fucking Jessica Alba with Jenny McCarthy watching.

 

[Legzman]

Same here guys.

Sometimes, not all the time, I can't get off even I'm thinking of fucking Jessica Alba with Jenny McCarthy watching.

Well if you were fuckin her with jenny watchin you'd nut in no time!

 

[Torre82]

Happens all the time. Thats why I use Hand, the never-fail antidote to ejaculatory problems! As for her, hell.. she can cum well into the double digits easily on any given day, why cant I go give myself one an hour? HUH?!

 

[baultista]

Well my ex wasn't the hottest but OHHH man she knew what she was doin'

That was never a problem for me =D

 

[gunslingingbird]

Bump of the Day!

 

[zaxxon]

Same for me.

 

[usmc071984]

ive only had this problem with girls i was sleeping with that i really wasnt all that attracted to. back when i was a stalion and could get it up for anything anytime. now ive kinda lost the sex drive so randoms dont happen anymore. im more turned on by a real intimate relationship than i am by fucking. just how i am tho.... i have a feeling most guys arent the same way.....

 

[jasonk282]

Maybe you should try longer foreplay for several reasons
1. To keep her interested
2. To keep you harder for longer therefore intensifing your sex and orgasm.

Also ever talk to her about your problem? There might be something that she can do, like roleplay, dress up and just do things that you see in your porn collection.

Communication is KEY

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Bump of the Day!

This is an odd thread to bump