Recently I've been criticized for favoring the colloquial "doing sex" over the accepted "having sex", but my linguistic choice is not without foundation.
"Having sex with" implies a connection with the other beyond the mere physical, a joint effort for a shared result, generally mutual pleasure, where in my case where I'm most often renting a body in and on which to do my dirty business, more often than not, no such deeper connection exists.
Don't get me wrong, there is always a profound professional regard, but if a woman is watching T.V., say, or talking on the phone while you're engaged in the act in/on her body, is not the phrasing "doing sex to" the more accurate?
"Having sex with" implies a connection with the other beyond the mere physical, a joint effort for a shared result, generally mutual pleasure, where in my case where I'm most often renting a body in and on which to do my dirty business, more often than not, no such deeper connection exists.
Don't get me wrong, there is always a profound professional regard, but if a woman is watching T.V., say, or talking on the phone while you're engaged in the act in/on her body, is not the phrasing "doing sex to" the more accurate?
implies simple sex
