Dumb 10 or Amazing 5?

[Rey C.]

I was engaged to someone who was as close to a 10 as I could imagine (think Salma Hayek). She was working on her masters... so she was plenty smart. She was also a fantastic cook. And as she was working on a teaching certificate, she seemed to like kids (even though I've never cared for them). She even loved my favorite sport: Formula One... as well as my favorite driver of that time, Ayrton Senna da Silva. But she was also arrogant, shallow, haughty, had a mean little temper and had no regard for money: she was as spoiled as an egg laying out in the sun. But I blamed her parents for that.

The old saying is, for every single, gorgeous girl out there, there is a guy who just got tired of her shit. That's the best way I can describe our breakup. Though to be fair, I wasn't exactly Prince Charming back then either, so I'm sure the feeling was mutual.

These days (if I have to choose under the conditions in the OP), I'd much rather have an average looking girl, who has the qualities that go toward making a good relationship. And you can't build a relationship (just) based on looks - or at least I can't.

 

[Bearded_Menace]

I'll take the 5 as long as she's got a decent ass.

:hybrid:

 

[Icewater Jones]

The way I see it, the 10 can learn to become what the 5 already is, but the 5 will never become a 10...

I'll take the shitty house in the awesome neighborhood and remodel that bitch.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

The way I see it, the 10 can learn to become what the 5 already is, but the 5 will never become a 10...

I'll take the shitty house in the awesome neighborhood and remodel that bitch.

But then your changing who the 10 is.. And over time that 10s slowly goin to become a 9..then an 8 and so on and so forth until she's a 5 too.. Because let's face it how many 80 year old 10s do you know? (besides Betty White but she's a rare find lol) idk.. My reason for this post was because I have 3 friends K (the 10) M (the 5) and C (the guy) It's been a love triangle with them since forever but C keeps going back to K time and time again and I really believe that it's because K is as hot as he'll ever get.. But M is the epitome of what most guys say what they want in a gf looks aside. (she's not ugly by any means and she has a nice ass lol but she's just no K)

 

[busaguy79]

I will go with the 5 because you don't look at the mantle when you're poking the fire!

 

[Elwood70]

I'm willing to trade looks for a morally casual attitude...

Ah,you just want someone you can screw on the first date....

 

[Rey C.]

But then your changing who the 10 is.. And over time that 10s slowly goin to become a 9..then an 8 and so on and so forth until she's a 5 too.. Because let's face it how many 80 year old 10s do you know? (besides Betty White but she's a rare find lol) idk.. My reason for this post was because I have 3 friends K (the 10) M (the 5) and C (the guy) It's been a love triangle with them since forever but C keeps going back to K time and time again and I really believe that it's because K is as hot as he'll ever get.. But M is the epitome of what most guys say what they want in a gf looks aside. (she's not ugly by any means and she has a nice ass lol but she's just no K)

Well, the one person you haven't really told us about is C (the guy?). Is he better than average looking, intelligent, successful, does he have good self-esteem, etc., etc.? What's his deal?

Plus, if the guy keeps going back to the 10 (K?), then I assume M (the 5?) is taking him back once he gets tired of the nitwit 10. True? So is this a love triangle or a sex triangle? And do the girls get along with each other?

 

[pussyman69]

Take the 5 coz a warm pussys a warm pussy!!

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Well, the one person you haven't really told us about is C (the guy?). Is he better than average looking, intelligent, successful, does he have good self-esteem, etc., etc.? What's his deal?

Plus, if the guy keeps going back to the 10 (K?), then I assume M (the 5?) is taking him back once he gets tired of the nitwit 10. True? So is this a love triangle or a sex triangle? And do the girls get along with each other?

C is not attractive at all (to me at least, though both girls have told me he's awesome in bed) he's somewhat intelligent yet I don't see a bright future for him. He's not successful (but his daddy's really rich)
He comes off as having high self esteem and if I had to guess that'd be from strutting K around. I've never really cared for him much but that's probably because I like people who can carry a decent conversation. The girls don't get along with eachother at all and I Suppose it would be a love/sex relationship. Usually K dumps C because she wants to date a hotter guy so C will go to M and lie and say that he left K to be with her because he "missed her so much" etc etc
Oh & that's another thing, K is unfaithful everytime her and C are together.. One time we went to a party and her and two of our guy friends came over to my place afterward and one of the guys was kissing all over her while she was on the phone with C telling him she loved him and goodnight.. And another time, I was in the living room with some friends (playing Mario lol) and her & MY ex boyfriend disappeared into MY bedroom for a good while.. Then when C called her she was all "lovey" to him.. Its not a fact of M taking C back, M really loves C. It's the fact that C keeps taking K back after everything she does like he's expecting her to change.. (and he knows about the cheating he just chooses to ignore it) I personally believe that C puts up with everything K does to him because she's a 10 and he's only a 5 himself. He likes having a hot G/F. :dunno:

 

[JacknCoke]

Call me crazy but, M needs a slap in the face from a good friend if I comprehended the situation correctly.

 

[dbradford8589]

I'll go with the 5.

 

[Icewater Jones]

But then your changing who the 10 is.. And over time that 10s slowly goin to become a 9..then an 8 and so on and so forth until she's a 5 too.. Because let's face it how many 80 year old 10s do you know? (besides Betty White but she's a rare find lol) idk.. My reason for this post was because I have 3 friends K (the 10) M (the 5) and C (the guy) It's been a love triangle with them since forever but C keeps going back to K time and time again and I really believe that it's because K is as hot as he'll ever get.. But M is the epitome of what most guys say what they want in a gf looks aside. (she's not ugly by any means and she has a nice ass lol but she's just no K)

Sounds like the 5 is a little more than a 5 and the 10 is a little less. It takes a lot for a dime piece to be turned into a nickel and vice versa, but if the dime is that useless, I think I will take my chances to turn that 5 to a 7 or possibly 8. No self-respecting man has use for a woman with no use herself. My thought initially was the 10 was far and away greater than the 5, but your description of the situation makes me think otherwise.

My question to you is: does the M stand for Me?

 

[Atar554]

The way I see it, the 10 can learn to become what the 5 already is, but the 5 will never become a 10...

I'll take the shitty house in the awesome neighborhood and remodel that bitch.

Don't commit the cardinal error that women do...

"I'll marry him and then I'll change him..."

I'd go with the 5. Honestly every man will eventually tire of beauty. It doesn't seem like it when you're not with someone all the time in the form of a relationship. However after spending years with someone you need something more substantial than exploring someone's body for the 10,000th time.

Anyways nobody's looks last forever and if you can't stand being around them save for sex, good luck at having anything remotely meaningful in a relationship.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Call me crazy but, M needs a slap in the face from a good friend if I comprehended the situation correctly.

Oh trust me, I've tried talking to her.. She's just holding out for some fantasy that he'll change and leave K for good.

Sounds like the 5 is a little more than a 5 and the 10 is a little less. It takes a lot for a dime piece to be turned into a nickel and vice versa, but if the dime is that useless, I think I will take my chances to turn that 5 to a 7 or possibly 8. No self-respecting man has use for a woman with no use herself. My thought initially was the 10 was far and away greater than the 5, but your description of the situation makes me think otherwise.

My question to you is: does the M stand for Me?

Lol no..it's just the first letter of their names.
I would never be with C.. Like ever.. He's boring, rude & skinny. (a little boy)
I had one of those once.. Now I prefer men lol

 

[squallumz]

where's the poll?

im going with 5. im lazy and dont feel like cooking right now.

 

[Johan]

Marry the 5, cheat her with the 10

 

[funkipman]

Marry the 5, cheat her with the 10

:bowdown:

 

[STDiva]

Marry the 5, cheat her with the 10

The 5 divorces you, takes all your money and your house and the 10 all of a sudden doesn't find you, or your 1 bedroom shithole apartment appealing.

 

[RichardNailder]

2 fives - after all, I was raised as a Mormon!

 

[Alyssa Rose]

The 5 divorces you, takes all your money and your house and the 10 all of a sudden doesn't find you, or your 1 bedroom shithole apartment appealing.

Indeed.:bowdown:
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