Peter Gazinya
A woman is an occasional pleasure but a cigar is always a smoke.
i'm not talking of giving 5 bucks to some poor man kind-of-thing.
i'm talking about let him come in your house, give him a shower, foot, clothes, and get him a job kind-of-thing!
REALLY help someone is do something that, without your help, it would be IMPOSSIBLE for them to do it.
something BIG.
what? take a shower with him, rub his foot, and give him a hand job?
No, never helped anyone that way.