I Need Your Help

[chingon7]

This girl that i met about two years ago when i was going to school always had a crush on me and was always pursuing me i always ignored her because at the time she had a boyfriend.

We hooked up a couple times but never had sex. At the time i felt something for her but then it kind of died away. I came back home and she was still in school it's been about a year that we have not talked but now i am realizing that there could have been something special.

When i came back home she did try to talk to me and everything and told me that she missed me while she was still with her boyfriend but i just ignored her.

She is back home for the summer we are both from Cali i dont know if she is still with her boyfriend but im tempted to call her to see what she's been up maybe we can fix what we broke a while back. I am afraid that if i call her she would not want to talk to me.

What Do You Guys Think? What Should I Do?

 

[Boobinator]

Call her or you will regret it later You can't get much worse than a no.

 

[ezteban]

Well, it's a personnal decision...do what your heart decided !
That's the way I use to go.
Good luck !

 

[24788]

Call her or you will regret it later You can't get much worse than a no.

Don't be a bitch like me and call her.

GL - don't try to push anything on her. Ask her to go to a neutral place.

A great man once said "playing with bears in a field is a bad idea, but if you've never regretted the past you'll feel no pain".

 

[Hot Mega]

What did you break??? She had a b/f which is the reason you give for not ceding to her advances. Should be simple enough to explain to her assuming she is now single. I suspect she would regard your motivations as honorable enough.

But what are you saying? That you are now willing to "talk" to her now whether she has a b/f or not?

I would say call her and play it by ear.

 

[alexpnz]

Quit yer fussin' and give it a shot......trust me, youll regret it-I know from experience!:crash:

 

[himperv203]

Well I think you should give it a try. If it doesnt work for you you can still move on with your life. But I guess it doesnt hurt to try.

 

[venus_plower]

it doesn't matter what you do. as long as you do it from your heart. and no regret.

 

[Skyraider22]

It sems like one of those cases where if ou don't do it you will never know so in other words give her a call don't just sit there and do nothing it will make you feel worse.Don't question yourself on what could have been the worst she can say is no and that is not too ad if that is the worst :hatsoff:

 

[DOA82]

This girl that i met about two years ago when i was going to school always had a crush on me and was always pursuing me i always ignored her because at the time she had a boyfriend.

We hooked up a couple times but never had sex. At the time i felt something for her but then it kind of died away. I came back home and she was still in school it's been about a year that we have not talked but now i am realizing that there could have been something special.

When i came back home she did try to talk to me and everything and told me that she missed me while she was still with her boyfriend but i just ignored her.

She is back home for the summer we are both from Cali i dont know if she is still with her boyfriend but im tempted to call her to see what she's been up maybe we can fix what we broke a while back. I am afraid that if i call her she would not want to talk to me.

What Do You Guys Think? What Should I Do?

She chased you and you ignored her....

Hooked up with her but didnt have sex.....was this during the same period you ignored her because of her boyfriend?

You felt something and it died away.....now a whole year passes and now you think there was something there worth chasing...

I love how you wrap it up with a shared blame "What we broke", her boyfriend wasnt a factor in the past, or were you just more interested in getting your balls licked and damn the consequence to her?

Face it, you blew it. Big time.

Leave the poor girl be, shes wasted enough time on you.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

I would give her a call and see whats going on in her life. Like some other member stated you will always regret it if you dont. Just make sure your head is right and if she does still have a bf then stay away you dont want to be the "other" guy

 

[Sicario]

This girl that i met about two years ago when i was going to school always had a crush on me and was always pursuing me i always ignored her because at the time she had a boyfriend.

We hooked up a couple times but never had sex. At the time i felt something for her but then it kind of died away. I came back home and she was still in school it's been about a year that we have not talked but now i am realizing that there could have been something special.

When i came back home she did try to talk to me and everything and told me that she missed me while she was still with her boyfriend but i just ignored her.

She is back home for the summer we are both from Cali i dont know if she is still with her boyfriend but im tempted to call her to see what she's been up maybe we can fix what we broke a while back. I am afraid that if i call her she would not want to talk to me.

What Do You Guys Think? What Should I Do?

Not quite "chingon" now, are we?

Call her and seal the deal.