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I Think Im Falling For A Stripper
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Hypergalaxy
Fuck the rest, Freeones is the best!
bodie54
If FreeOnes was a woman, I'd marry her!
Ouch!
The negativity on this thread is pretty intense.
Yes the chances the guy is being schmoozed are high, but on the other hand dancers do frequently date clients. I've dated a few myself and so have a few of my friends. When it comes to dancers it's not particularly hard to ferret out the pure mercenaries from the approachables, and it may be she's one of the latter. If the connection he's talking about includes the kind of conversation you'd have with a girl in a "normal" setting.....then yeah go ahead and ask her out for coffee or lunch. What have you got to lose? If she says no you'll know the attraction isn't mutual and you can chose to stop bankrolling her.
The negativity on this thread is pretty intense.
Yes the chances the guy is being schmoozed are high, but on the other hand dancers do frequently date clients. I've dated a few myself and so have a few of my friends. When it comes to dancers it's not particularly hard to ferret out the pure mercenaries from the approachables, and it may be she's one of the latter. If the connection he's talking about includes the kind of conversation you'd have with a girl in a "normal" setting.....then yeah go ahead and ask her out for coffee or lunch. What have you got to lose? If she says no you'll know the attraction isn't mutual and you can chose to stop bankrolling her.
HELLRAISER
Looking to go where no FreeOnes member has gone before!
strippers don't fall in love with their customers unless they shower them with alot of $$$
titsrock
I'm too lazy to set a usertitle.
Bodie speaketh the trutheth.
The only test that I know of is to go during a dead night when there aren't many clients to schmooze. It's you best bet to get quality time with her. Buy her a drink and just talk with her on a dead night. If you go on Friday or Saturday night, it's the money maker night. Forget it.
There are a lot of cynics in this thread. Strippers do want to get laid and have boyfriends too, ya know. It does make sense that they would date a "regular" rather than some stuff shirt accountant out for a 1-night on the town kind of thing.
Regulars are presumed to be "okay" with the lifestyle and won't be judgmental.
Just go on an off night (that she works), just sit down, order a drink and when she says "what are you doin' here tonight," just reply "I had a rough day at work, I wanted to have a drink, and I just thought of you for some reason"...and smile. Always smile at everything.
Good luck.
The only test that I know of is to go during a dead night when there aren't many clients to schmooze. It's you best bet to get quality time with her. Buy her a drink and just talk with her on a dead night. If you go on Friday or Saturday night, it's the money maker night. Forget it.
There are a lot of cynics in this thread. Strippers do want to get laid and have boyfriends too, ya know. It does make sense that they would date a "regular" rather than some stuff shirt accountant out for a 1-night on the town kind of thing.
Regulars are presumed to be "okay" with the lifestyle and won't be judgmental.
Just go on an off night (that she works), just sit down, order a drink and when she says "what are you doin' here tonight," just reply "I had a rough day at work, I wanted to have a drink, and I just thought of you for some reason"...and smile. Always smile at everything.
Good luck.
Maybe, just maybe, in this world of constant complaining, whining, finger-pointing and all around douche-baggedness, maybe, there is a flicker of romance between chingon7 and this lady-of-the-pole.
I want to believe that their blessed union could be the one to produce an offspring who is here to guide us into a more peaceful, prosperous future. Their union is not of monetary basis, but of love.
By the way, all you people paying to get across the Brooklyn Bridge, HA! All that money is mine. I bought it this afternoon, online, from a Nigerian king.
I want to believe that their blessed union could be the one to produce an offspring who is here to guide us into a more peaceful, prosperous future. Their union is not of monetary basis, but of love.
By the way, all you people paying to get across the Brooklyn Bridge, HA! All that money is mine. I bought it this afternoon, online, from a Nigerian king.
Kingfisher
Here Zombie, Zombie, Zombie...
Yup, it's your endorphins talking. Take a break from going there for awhile.
YMIHERE
MasterBlaster
Go for it. In my life I was hit on by 3 strippers. The 3 relationships lasted about a month for each stripper. They were too crazy for me and that's saying something. Never gave them money for any reason. They just wanted me. As has been pointed out, they are real girls with all the wants and desires of a human. Some are working their way through college.
And Tits I would like you to stop being a bigot when referring to accountants. I have never worn a tie or even a suit and often I don't wear socks. We are regular people who like to bring order out of chaos.
Good idea brother. Stay away for a month or two. Save your money. Go there once in a while like once every month or two (or less). First time I went, i was thinking when I was going to go again on the way home. But it gets old after a while. But deffinitley a great time once and a while.
Gordar
If FreeOnes was a woman, I'd marry her!
1. Meet her outside of the club she works at... (not at the front door of course, but somewhere entirely different)
2. hope she likes you. She might have a preference you simply do not fit into or she might already have a boyfriend.
3. Treat her like you'd treat any other nice girl, not like a stripper & most important of all, treat her with respect. This might actually give you an edge over other guys.
4. Since she's a stripper, she's probably a bit more open-minded than most other people, at least where it concerns nudity & maybe also sex. If you're uncomfortable with that, forget it.
5. Don't be offended if she rejects you. She might be nice to you in the club, but that could just be an act. It's her job to be nice to customers, after all.
2. hope she likes you. She might have a preference you simply do not fit into or she might already have a boyfriend.
3. Treat her like you'd treat any other nice girl, not like a stripper & most important of all, treat her with respect. This might actually give you an edge over other guys.
4. Since she's a stripper, she's probably a bit more open-minded than most other people, at least where it concerns nudity & maybe also sex. If you're uncomfortable with that, forget it.
5. Don't be offended if she rejects you. She might be nice to you in the club, but that could just be an act. It's her job to be nice to customers, after all.
smoknn
I can't remember what I said 100 posts ago!
what he said.........stripper is a nice way off saying hooker....i have knew a few in my time all = hot...and after $ and ALL admitted to hooking at one time or another.....think about it...its all about the money...sooner or later the right man comes in..talking the right $.......and just for oneeeee night they a hooker shhhhhhhhhh....then....2 nights.......maybe 3....what the hell 4.......most of them girls get use to making a living pulling they cloths off= easy money..of course its easy money..so after the first time...its all down hill,,,,,if it gets in they blood...youll never change them peace out!
Hot Mega
I'm too lazy to set a usertitle.
I wouldn't advise "falling" for any chick before she's earned the respect of some level of appreciation for you as a person first....
But if you must "fall" for a dancer or stripper...the best thing you can do for yourself is to treat her like a normal girl and don't act like a "customer".
If you go to a strip club and you run across some chick you seem to think is hotter than the others for some reason. Then proceed to dump hundreds of dollars on her to slide up and down a stage pole, shake her tits and ass in your face or crawl all over your lap...why would she want to change that by making it personal?
However, if you engage her in reasonable conversation, tip her reasonably as an acknowledgement for going on stage (depending on the chick and place...some of them hate going on stage because it's a waste of their time), tip her nicely off stage just for being a cool chick without requiring dances and all that...she'll more likely see you not so much as a customer or $ sign and notice you more and you probably won't spend quite as much in the process. Not scientific but I have had out of the club relationships with many strippers based on that approach. In all honesty though, most women find me fairly attractive, I drive a few of the nicer vehicles and I'm not "hurting" for money. Not sure what that may or may not have to do with it but I usually get their phone numbers on the first try before they know what's in my pockets or what I have in the parking lot.
Not that I set out to have a relationship with a stripper per se but I go to strip clubs from time to time and I don't care so much where I meet a hot chick who seems to be cool enough and sane enough to want to know better.
I try not to pre-judge the character of any person based on what they do and I give every chick a fair shake (within reason).
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Shadowfax 10
Got two nipples for a dime?
I think you should find a nice girl somewhere else, If you get together with her would you be happy for her to keep dancing with men gawping at her.
I don't think think the relationship would bode well.
I don't think think the relationship would bode well.
Hot Mega
I'm too lazy to set a usertitle.
They have to fuck someone (at least the ones who still like dudes do). May as well be OP if he makes a good case for himself.:dunno:
Baill Inneraora
I changed my middle-name to Freeones
My gf used to work at a strip club as a bartender. We have been together for awhile, have lived together for almost a year and are planning on getting married next year. Neither of us have ever benn happier.
It can happen.
It can happen.
