1. Show the fans that I'm a human being and not some plastic porn icon. That means, for example, posting in forums about interesting topics that aren't directly related to my career. And showing a little more of my mental self -- what I think and feel -- in addition to my body. And owning up to having interests that might not be as glamorous as what people expect from a pornstar. And not being afraid to show the public what I look like without makeup. And talking about my life, my interests, my hobbies, etc. the way an ordinary person would talk about them.
2. Stop taking drugs, and be fully mentally present for my performances. (OK, here's where somebody is going to complain that I'm stereotyping about pornstars taking drugs. But seriously, maybe even most of them don't take drugs, but they usually seem like they do. There's this sort of "artificial high" quality about most pornstars. Maybe it's not drugs; maybe it's just that on some level they aren't comfortable with what they do, so they have to separate from it mentally; or maybe they're just always in "selling" mode; or whatever, I don't know. But I wish we could see something that looks a little more like sincerity. Maybe some of them need to take up meditation. Maybe some of them need to ask themselves why they're in this business.)
3. Take acting lessons, for Christ's sake! And take the acting aspect seriously. And try to give a convincing performance. Pretend that porn is real cinema, at least until the shooting's done.
