Internet Dating sites

[condor]

What's the point answering 50 questions about compatibility then finding her vagina/his penis is much too big/small for sex to be pleasurable? Who wants to go through with that.

Surely the whole point of internet dating sites is to limit that embarrassment or wasted time. But no, twenty questions on "how open are you with your feelings?", as if anyone can possibly quantify an answer.

Surely with the millions of people on these sites, they can find someone sexually AND emotionally compatible? What's the big deal in a female stating a range of penis size; it's important for both people.

 

[busenbust]

confused with swinging sites ?

 

[DOA82]

Sex is not what defines a relationship.

"He was the man of my dreams, he had everything I ever wanted.....but his dick was just an inch to short.....I had to let him go"

Grow up. You arent going to fill in a compatibility questionnaire and tick boxes like

"Seeking - Man seeks woman for LTR, enjoy cinema, cooking and long walks. Also must be open to fetish gear, anal sex oh and must swallow"

You wouldnt say that shit to any real woman in a bar and you wouldnt go "shopping" for one on a dating site with a line like that.

Relationships are meant to be a balance, one that doesnt revolve around sex like narrow minded horny teenagers. Discovery through gaining trust and experimentation as you become comfortable with one another.

What you propose, is on a par with meeting a girl at a bar, peaking at her bra label then turning her down because shes a size below what you fancy.

 

[tiger1977]

If you're answering questions about penis size, odds are you're on a hook-up site, not a dating site.

 

[Xombie3000]

My sister joined one of those dating sites. I couldn't believe she would shell out that much money to answer all of those stupid questions for it to match her with absolutely no one in her area cause she lives out in the middle of freaking nowhere.

Just to prove how stupid it was, I answered all of the questions with middle of the road answers, and it actually matched me with people. Very lame and I would never use those sites to meet anybody.

 

[ragincaucasian]

what IS the point of all those questions, indeed.

What is the point of a woman finding a 'perfect' match, when no matter who she finds, she will try to change him and make him conform to so ridiculous standard.

What is the point of a man filling out all those questions, when none of it really matters - just show us them tittays!!!

 

[condor]

Oh look, people came out with irrelevant comparisons that I never made. Why do half the people on internet forums resort to making underhand remarks? "Oh! X is just like Y. You're so shallow." Firstly, X is almost never just like Y. Secondly, it's up to you to prove something is shallow.

I even made the point that with millions of people on these sites, you could find someone compatible in both areas without trouble. The two are not contradictory but clearly others know better.

Secondly, has anyone who replied ever bothered to read Freud? "Sex is not what defines a relationship." What a load of crap! Of course it does. Anyone who thinks otherwise is naive in the extreme. You think any marriage with bad sex can end in anything but divorce? Freud, what a shallow thinker you are.

The only people who are shallow are those who simplify any argument to a cliche that has an apparent connection to the original argument. A penis too small or large for a particular women will result in unsatisfying sex. End of story. Unsatisfying sex will dash the relationship. So, nobody mention size incase anyone feels shallow. What a brilliant solution.

If you can't be bothered to read the whole of each sentence, go to another forum where others are waiting for your insightful brainless paraphrasings.

 

[Shifty]

Oh look, you're fucking with a moderator.

 

[Moonchild22]

I agree with you on the point that sex does in fact play a factor in any and every relationship. Anyone who tries to tell otherwise is either under-thinking or over-simplifying.

Now, does it make or break every relationship? No. It would be too simplistic to think it does. For some, it is a major factor while for others it isn't - despite size.

Honestly, I don't believe that many people can or will find a true relationship through a dating site. Some do, but some people become big rock n roll stars too. Most who try, won't make it that far. I think it's more suited for just hook-ups, as someone else said.

But I'm sorry that I'll have to veer slightly off topic because this issue came to mind when I read the vague thread title:
What gets me is the fact that there are black dating sites. Sites that are specifically for one race. Segregation in the year 2011, as if BET, Ebony magazine, black entertainment award shows, and other things that perpetuate the idea that one race is to be treated differently and separated from others, aren't bad enough, relationships have to begin this way as well. Dr. King would be proud, eh?
Are the 'regular' dating sites so against black people that they are forced to have a separate site? Obviously the so-called top sites are not running things right.

 

[STDiva]

I think the majority of people who use those dating sites are past using sexual satisfaction as a measuring tool. Some of the women at my place of work used it, met great guys and they're both happy. Sex is important, but it's also something that can improve with time and trusting the person you're with. Personalities are going to clash regardless.

 

[TheOrangeCat]

I don't really have any experience of dating sites (I grazed through a few last Christmas time out of sheer boredom), but I have a hard time believing any of the major or legitimate dating sites have cock size questions.

If you're on a hook up, fuck me tonight, site, then yea .. I think it's OK to be highly specific .. after all, you're not looking for love but sexual fulfillment on those sites and sexual fulfillment can have very specific parameters.

If you are looking for both sex and love and you're looking on an Adult FriendFinder kind of site, I'd say you'll be shit out luck.

That being said, from what I saw of the legitimate dating sites, they seemed mainly populated by a collection of women I can best describe as belonging in Moose Fest. So, shit out of luck there too.

Might be time to try mail order.

 

[Moonchild22]

I think the majority of people who use those dating sites are past using sexual satisfaction as a measuring tool. Some of the women at my place of work used it, met great guys and they're both happy. Sex is important, but it's also something that can improve with time and trusting the person you're with. Personalities are going to clash regardless.

Agreed. There are always issues. The world just witnessed what many called a "fairy tale wedding", but they'll have their issues too. There's always something.

 

[vodkazvictim]

I have always found that my "Fuck you, you fucking fuck!" chat up line works great.
I enjoy being slapped.