I ask this question because im a virgin and im woried. when i masturbate it dosen't take that long to climax, im woried if i ever do make it with a woman i will cum to fast, and then i will look like a pussy. someone help me.
Yeah, it's very different. There's a reason why governors and presidents risk their marriages, careers and fortunes rather than just jerk off. Chances are your first time will end in seconds. I suppose you can add some levity to the situation and, after you cum, yell out, "Yes! I win!"* but chances are, whoever you're with will understand...provided she knows she's your first.
Condoms certainly help. Condoms dull sensation a bit and should give you a bit more time. I suggest you buy some and trying rubbing one out while wearing one..just to learn how it eels. Jerking off beforehand helps as well.
Just remember that you want your first time to be the first of many..and no woman wants sex to be simply being fucked for three seconds. So try to get her off before you get yours.