I've Fallen For My Neighbor

[gunslingingbird]

Yes, he does live with her because he can't support himself. As I said before, he does not work at all. I think it's a strain for him to even get out of bed, let alone find a job.

I'm not worried at all about him fucking with me or my apartment. He's paranoid as all hell about me calling the cops about him doing some coke or some 'shrooms(while he's on probation for drugs) that I don't think he's stupid enough to do anything. If he wants to go a few rounds with me, fine and dandy. I won't get in as much trouble as he will. Another thing he doesn't know is all I have to do is make one phone call to a certain someone and his ass is going to jail for drugs. He has NOTHING to get me with. I don't have any illegal things here, plus I haven't thrown any punches or fucked with his shit. I totally have him by the balls and he can't do anything about it, except kill me, which I'm not worried about.




Chef, trust me when I say he's a dick, to the highest sense of the word. Earlier today he had a friend stop by and he was arguing with him over nothing. Even Dana stormed out, called him an asshole and left. If that doesn't say he's a dick, I don't know what does. I'm telling you, he's the wrong guy for her. I'd say they get along.....30% of the time, maybe less, and that's when he's sober! I'm not even going to start to describe him when he's drunk or wasted. Oh, he doesn't get mildly drunk, he gets totally shitfaced drunk and it's not pretty.

Yes, for now it's just alcohol, pot, coke and shrooms. Wait until he discovers the joy of PCP, and you could be in for a treat. I think you should just let him be and ignore him if he tries to get into a verbal match with you. If he attacks you first, lay him the fuck out, otherwise, let him be. When you talk with Dana, don't mention him, don't think of him, pretend he doesn't exist. Eventually she might just start to see the light.

 

[Violator79]

Yes, for now it's just alcohol, pot, coke and shrooms. Wait until he discovers the joy of PCP, and you could be in for a treat. I think you should just let him be and ignore him if he tries to get into a verbal match with you. If he attacks you first, lay him the fuck out, otherwise, let him be. When you talk with Dana, don't mention him, don't think of him, pretend he doesn't exist. Eventually she might just start to see the light.

When I talk to Dana, it's just us talking about regular things. She's the one who told me about how her boyfriend....let's call him Cockfag, feels about me. I can't stand the thought of him, let alone talking about him. Hell, even hearing his voice gives me the shits. Oh I'm praying he throws a punch. I'll put him in a world of hurt he won't believe.

 

[ChefChiTown]

Chef, trust me when I say he's a dick, to the highest sense of the word. Earlier today he had a friend stop by and he was arguing with him over nothing. Even Dana stormed out, called him an asshole and left. If that doesn't say he's a dick, I don't know what does. I'm telling you, he's the wrong guy for her. I'd say they get along.....30% of the time, maybe less, and that's when he's sober! I'm not even going to start to describe him when he's drunk or wasted. Oh, he doesn't get mildly drunk, he gets totally shitfaced drunk and it's not pretty.

laxe already said it...

Hate to burst your bubble, but that's how all guys feel when we see a girl we like, and see her boyfriend. No matter what, we're going to think that we're better for her and that her BF is a waste of DNA.

It's called jealousy and I think you have a lot of it running through your veins.

Let me ask you something, and I'm asking this in all seriousness...

You haven't said "I love her", but it's fairly obvious that you feel this way about her, especially since you've said the following...

I told her she's grown on me but I did not say I'm in love with her. I was careful what words to use. That would've ruined everything.

But lately, I've found myself totally falling for her.

I told her I care very much about her

I think about her all the time. We're perfect for each other.

You claim that you are crazy about her and that you're "perfect" for eachother, but...

- Do you know her middle name?
- Do you know her parent's names?
- Do you know when her birthday is?
- Do you know where she was born?
- Do you know her favorite color?
- Do you know her favorite food?
- Do you know her favorite band?
- Do you know her favorite TV show?
- Etc.

Seriously, if you can't answer simple questions like that, then I think you have to take an honest look at your situation and realize that a lot of your feelings might be fueled by jealousy of her boyfriend. I'm just giving you an honest opinion.

:2 cents:

 

[laxe]

How do you know he does coke?

 

[Violator79]

laxe already said it...
You haven't said "I love her", but it's fairly obvious that you feel this way about her, especially since you've said the following...










- Do you know her middle name?
- Do you know her parent's names?
- Do you know when her birthday is?
- Do you know where she was born?
- Do you know her favorite color?
- Do you know her favorite food?
- Do you know her favorite band?
- Do you know her favorite TV show?
- Etc.

I know her middle name's Stephanie, she did tell me her parent's names, but that's the last thing on my mind, June 12 is her birthday, fav. colors are red and blue, favorite foods are chicken, deer and pizza, favorite shows are Gray's Anatomy, E.R. and The Mentalist, favorite band is hard to say, she likes Grateful Dead, Frank Zappa, etc, she was born just a few miles from where we live. For the most part I've done my homework, save a few things.

I haven't told her "I love you" yet, simply because I feel if I tell her that, she may totally turn her back on me. I want to say that to her, I really do, but the time isn't right and I don't want to rush it. Oh and I'm not jealous of her boyfriend. HE'S jealous of me, her own words. She knows I treat her better than he does. She's the one who has to realize that.

How do you know he does coke?

I was standing in their apartment and I saw the lines of coke on the table and he snorted 2 of them up. It sure as shit wasn't sugar or flour. I was offered some, but I've never done anything more than some weed. I'm not that stupid.

 

[ChefChiTown]

Oh and I'm not jealous of her boyfriend. HE'S jealous of me, her own words.

From what I've read, you're jealous of her boyfriend. You just seem to be reeeeeally hung up on him for some reason.

She knows I treat her better than he does. She's the one who has to realize that.

Maybe she already does realize that, but she just doesn't care. Maybe she actually cares for her boyfriend, loves her boyfriend and actually wants to be with him.

They've been together for so long for a reason and you're the one who has to realize that.

:2 cents:

 

[broderic_randal]

when i was growing up and living with my parents we had a family that lived behind us. there was a wife and a husband and five children under the age of 15.

the wife was so fucking hot,she had a real tight ass and nice big perky boobs. nobody could believe that she gave birth to five kids

in the summer she would sun bathe on her deck in a bikini, and i would hide in my bedroom with the door locked and watch her with binoculars

i would sometimes see her around the neighborhood when i was walking my dog, and i would always say hi, chat her up and flirt with her

even though she was married, i am sure she would have fooled around with me, but because she was so religious she never did anything and always brushed me off

 

[Violator79]

From what I've read, you're jealous of her boyfriend.

They've been together for so long for a reason and you're the one who has to realize that.

:2 cents:

I have no reason to be jealous of him. What possible reason do I have to be jealous of an unemployed, worthless, drug addled, lazy bastard? He could have an even hotter girlfriend but she couldn't mean anything to me. I don't know what it is about her, but she's really in my mind. If I was jealous of her boyfriend I would say, but I'm honestly not.

So far all quiet tonight. I think it's going to be a normal night.

 

[ChefChiTown]

I have no reason to be jealous of him. What possible reason do I have to be jealous of an unemployed, worthless, drug addled, lazy bastard? He could have an even hotter girlfriend but she couldn't mean anything to me. I don't know what it is about her, but she's really in my mind. If I was jealous of her boyfriend I would say, but I'm honestly not.

So far all quiet tonight. I think it's going to be a normal night.

Because he is the with the girl you want? If you're not jealous, in all honesty, then all the more power to ya.

 

[calpoon]

I skipped the last page of posts. I'm bored with this subject...

but you say that he is on probation and you know he is still on drugs? there ya go. narc on the motherfucker! send him back to jail and get him out of the picture. it might not be the most dignified, but I'd say that it's better than your plan of waiting for him to drop dead.

who do you think that she's going to come crying to about it? do what you gotsta do bro.

 

[Analingus]

Said the porn junkie...:rofl:

Who said I am a porn junkie?

 

[stampede2873]

Violater.... Are you sure its not just lust combined with an overwhelming desire to be her knight in shining armor???

I'd say give her a break for a week. Don't talk to her or think about her and see how you feel after a week. If you still have feelings, then you really need to have a heart to heart with her and lay it on the table.

BUT!!! I caution... If you do decide to lay it out, be prepared for it to fall apart on you.


....and quit obsessing on her boyfriend, he's just gonna stress you out.

 

[lurkingdirk]

show her your penis, if you're well endowed, and see if she takes the bait.

 

[Violator79]

I skipped the last page of posts. I'm bored with this subject...

but you say that he is on probation and you know he is still on drugs? there ya go. narc on the motherfucker! send him back to jail and get him out of the picture. it might not be the most dignified, but I'd say that it's better than your plan of waiting for him to drop dead.

who do you think that she's going to come crying to about it? do what you gotsta do bro.

Yeah that thought has crossed my mind, and later today my best friend's stopping by and I'm gonna run a few things by him, and the best part, he's taking criminal justice classes.

Violater.... Are you sure its not just lust combined with an overwhelming desire to be her knight in shining armor???

I'd say give her a break for a week. Don't talk to her or think about her and see how you feel after a week. If you still have feelings, then you really need to have a heart to heart with her and lay it on the table.

BUT!!! I caution... If you do decide to lay it out, be prepared for it to fall apart on you.


....and quit obsessing on her boyfriend, he's just gonna stress you out.

I'm taking it easy right now. I'm trying, I mean really trying to not have her in my mind as much as I have been, but it's not easy let me tell you.

 

[PAHaggs89]

Ive always wanted an older woman and one of my friends mom

 

[gunslingingbird]

show her your penis, if you're well endowed, and see if she takes the bait.

Nah. She'll probably just think he went to the Bass Pro Shop and got a grub worm. :1orglaugh

 

[lurkingdirk]

Nah. She'll probably just think he went to the Bass Pro Shop and got a grub worm. :1orglaugh

:rofl:

 

[veam]

wait!!!post pics, then ask us for more advice.

 

[blake]

I've known chicks like this. They will use a nice aguy as leverage against their dick bf but don't think a guy is strong and won't respect him unless he treats her like shit. Anything else seems weak compared to the ogres shes known.

 

[TITS KING]

Be away from her she can easily spank your......butt or vice versa........:nanner::jump: