Being a feminist and being a member of N.O.W. are two different things. Just like being a gun enthusiast and being a member of the G.O.A. are two different things. I'm a gun enthusiast and I've been a Life Member of the NRA for many years. But the boys & girls over at the G.O.A. (Gun Owners of America) are a bit too paranoid schizophrenic for my liking.
Many women consider themselves to be feminists. But I haven't met that many who consider themselves to be radical feminists, or who belong to N.O.W. Camille Paglia has a brilliant mind, IMO. While I doubt that we agree on many other social issues, I heard her speak in the early 90's and I was mightily impressed. But Camille Paglia tried to speak to a N.O.W. gathering some years back and 60 Minutes was present. They repeatedly shut her mic off, as they'd done on other occasions. Camille saw (the leadership of) the modern
radical feminist movement as I still see it: overprivileged, overeducated, upper middle class, White and Jewish females who have
waaaay too much time on their hands... and too much money in their trust funds from Daddy or from a divorce settlement. She went after the N.O.W. leadership for being racists and classists - whoa, they didn't like that much!

I believe sometime after that dressing down, N.O.W. elected a token Black as President, after Queen Patricia Ireland gave up her throne. Camille is for fair treatment of women,
but she's also in favor of women being responsible for their actions.
"I did something bad because a man made me do something bad" doesn't fly with her - and it doesn't fly with me either. To the best of my knowledge, Camille does not favor creating a law that would make women a "protected class" in the U.S. But N.O.W. does. Equal treatment or special treatment??? Camille has no problems with pornography. She's rather libertarian in that respect. But if N.O.W. (and other even more radical feminist groups) had its way,
all pornogaphy depicting male/female sexual relations would be made illegal. N.O.W. and the fundamentalist Evangelicals worked together (politics makes strange bed fellows, or so they say) when Brother AG Ed Meese was on the rampage in the 80's. Just like the loons on the radical right believe,
ALL pornography degrades women, leads to increased rape of women and increased abuse of children. The Fundies also believe that it'll turn a decent, straight boy gay... but the N.O.W. gals probably aren't in bed with them on that point.
Can I look at a woman and tell if she's a feminist by how pretty she is? Hell, no! Some of the angry, radical Women's Studies majors that I went to school with were absolute baby dolls (and wouldn't they love to hear me call them "baby dolls"?!

). Them being so attractive and being "objectified" is what apparently led some of them into that movement (cult?).
But anyway, N.O.W. (IMO) is more about whining, bitching, pissing and moaning about anything and everything that not only suggests that the woman isn't on equal grounds, but (more importantly), she doesn't have an advantage or isn't getting preferential treatment. N.O.W. is the same whacky group that had kind words and a warm shoulder for
serial killer, Aileen Wuornos (she was just misunderstood, doncha know...

)... but because Letterman was boinking the hired help (and he's a man), they've got their panties in a bunch.
As far as I know, Letterman wasn't married when he was screwing around with these women. AFAIK, none of them were married either. He didn't rape any of them. He didn't bribe, blackmail or coerce any of them (AFAIK). He didn't use any CBS money to spirit them away to the Waldorf for weekend boot-knocking sessions. And unless CBS had some employee guidelines againt this, I don't see what the fuss is all about.