Love of legs may lead to infidelity - Help?

[Legzman]

I've always been fascinated with long, beautiful legs, but I think over the past few years that fascination has turned into almost an obsession. I am married for about 3 years with a son, but whenever we go out I can't help but checking out all the ladies, and the ones wearing short skirts or really short shorts usually get my full attention. If the lady has long, smooth, and gorgeous legs I would keep sneaking a glance every now and then. My wife have average legs, not the ones that I go crazy over, and I am concerned that eventually I may cheat on her or leave her because I really want to be with a girl with the legs that I crave. I do love my wife but this is something that I can't seem to get over. I think it may even lower my sexual desire for my wife. I guess I just want to know if it's common to lust over other women with particular assets and what you can do about it if it's becoming a problem in your relationship with your GF or wife. Thanks.

I'm in the same boat. I find myself lusting over women with gorgous legs all the time! Very distracting feature I'll give you that. Especially when your obviously a leg man much like myself. What helps me is the attitude "No matter how hot they are...someone is sick of her shit!" Helps me to move past it and just enjoy the view. Also I find porn to be a great release. I still enjoy a healthy sex life with my significant other. But my love of legs has lead to a much better appreciation of porn and the fantasy of being with women with perfect legs.

 

[lurkingdirk]

ok, i'm going to sound like a sanctimonious dick, but here it is:

you made a commitment. honor it. while i know it is impossible not to look at other women, CHOOSE to alter how you think about them. if you look every time with the thought that "those might be sexier legs" than what you have, you're doomed to failing in this relationship.

if, on the other hand, you CHOOSE to alter how you think about this, things will look up. don't look for better legs. enjoy the legs you've got access to. periodically you'll see delicious legs. enjoy that. then go home and have sex with your wife. following which you can hug your kid. then fall asleep knowing you've got a good situation.

seeing delicious things to which you don't have access doesn't constitute a reason to cheat or leave.

that's just my :2 cents:. i know there are vastly different opinions out there.