Maybe no one has replied to your thread because this word does not exist? :dunno: No kidding, in a way, it doesn't. I use Firefox and the word "misandry" wasn't in the browser's dictionary until I added it. But misogyny is. With "sexism" being 100% linked to misogyny and even the mention of misandry being claimed to be a form of misogyny, we are now, in my opinion, in that period spoken about in Orwell's 1984.
Full Definition of NEWSPEAK: propagandistic language marked by euphemism, circumlocution, and the inversion of customary meanings
Origin of NEWSPEAK
Newspeak, a language “designed to diminish the range of thought,” in the novel 1984 (1949) by George Orwell
In college I took a sociology class called "Logic and Reasoning". I admit, I took it just to get some credits and an easy grade
(sosh classes were notorious for being easy "gut" classes). But I learned SO much from that class and it's stayed with me for all these years. One exercise that the professor took us through was called The Substitution Game. You take any situation, incident or event that involves someone committing an act or being the victim of an act, and gauge how people feel about it or react to it - record those results. Now, you take the exact same incident, but you substitute in a person of a different race, religion or gender (whatever factor you're attempting to study) and place them in the role of the perpetrator or the victim - now compare this new set of results to the prior set. For the people who were honest while playing the game, we learned a
hell of a lot about ourselves and just how hypocritical we actually were. What we found was that how we felt about an incident often depended a LOT on who/what the perpetrator or victim was. Once we substituted in a member of some other group for the perpetrator or victim, the feelings and reactions changed. I learned a lot about myself from that exercise and I still use it. So when I catch myself (or others) rationalizing the reasons for their hypocrisy, I sometimes feel obliged to point it out. I'm not without sin. Like every other human, I have my biases too. It's just that I can usually recognize that sexism, racism, religious intolerance, etc. come in more that one flavor.
But in these days of Newspeak political correctness, you're not supposed to use exercises like that. You're supposed to go with the socially acceptable flow, which dictates that there is only one flavor of sexism, racism or religious intolerance. So constant complaints of misogyny are in and even the mention of misandry is out. The newest "in" thing with the feminist crowd is something called "ironic misandry". With it, radical feminists use hyperbolic misandry in a weak attempt to paint men who don't agree with their positions as whiners and closet misogynists. In short, they take the most extreme positions and words ("I look forward to the day when all men are illegal", "I bathe in male tears", "I castrate, therefore I am", "Kill all men", etc.) and try to say that because they aren't
that far gone, they're A-OK. Disingenuous reasoning or not? Well, let's play the old substitution game and find out. Let's say that instead of a feminist woman we have a White male in our example. And instead of addressing sexism, he is addressing racism. How would these play? "I look forward to the day when Negroes are illegal", "I bathe in Blacks' tears", "I lynch, therefore I am", "Kill all Blacks". To use the same tactic used by the feminists, anyone who would complain about the use of these (offensive) phrases would be told that they just don't get
the joke. Would Time magazine, Slate and a host of others be running to his defense as they have with ironic misandry? According to Jessica Zimmerman of the Misandrist Book Club: "The
men who get annoyed by
misandry jokes are in my experience universally brittle, insecure, humorless weenies with victim complexes." Again we play... "The
Blacks who get annoyed by
racist jokes are in my experience universally brittle, insecure, humorless weenies with victim complexes." Would it work for David Duke? Would it work for a man who ran the same game on women? If not, why not? :dunno:
Newspeak is about training people to accept certain words, phrases and thoughts as complete, unquestioned truth... and reject others as hateful lies, unworthy consideration. Exactly as Merriam-Webster states,
it is designed to diminish the range of thought.
So the word
misandry does not exist. It's now been banned. And if Sheryl Sandberg, Condoleeza Rice, Beyonce, Anna Maria Chávez (CEO of the Girl Scouts) and other feminists get their way, the word "bossy" (and any other
hurty words that they don't like) will also be banned.
Ban Bossy
Newspeak
Learn it.
Love it.
Live with it.