moral dillema....

[usmc071984]

so ive been with the same girl since november last year. she has been on a vacation to another country for the last 2 weeks and she gets home again tomorrow. and ive been completely faithful the whole time. which for me is unusual..... kinda proud of myself.

now for the twist.

i got a descent friend, wouldnt say we are very close but im way cool with her and we hang out occasionally..... yes im attracted to her physically but we have been strictly friends.

anyways she was engaged untill reciently and shes takin the separation well because its been comin for a long time now. so today she brings up that she knows my lady friend is outta town till tomorrow still. she said she wants to have her first freedom from her last relationship fuck just for the fun of it to say she did and she asks if id like to be the one to do it with her.

she was very specific the whole time that she wasnt tryin to steal me from my lady or have magic happen between us. its just as friends. but she thinks im cute too and shes comfortable with me so lucky me i get the chance.

do i take it or leave it?

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

I try to never give out advice on relationships but when I was in the Corps about a million years ago I never passed on the opportunity to get some. That may have established my history of non committal relationships, though. I would say if your girlfriend and your potential guilt free fling are friends or even just friendly, don't do it. They'll talk and it'll come out.

 

[rawlwear]

Heres my opinion

When you have to go outside of your relationship for pleasure theirs a problem, If you care about your girlfriend enough than just stay with her why risk the break up just because you want to get off? I just look at cheating as a selfish act if you want a free ride of fucking don't be in a relationship, you've gone this far not cheating why start now?

 

[usmc071984]

well these girls do not know eachother whatsoever so thats not a worry, but honestly i have fallen for my lady kinda hard since november. im thinkin that its more not worth it than anything else.....

 

[BlueBalls]

It's completely your decision and your decision alone. Dont try to be swayed by one persons opinion or another. At the end of the day if you do it or not, it was your decision to do so. I dont know you, but asking us sounds to me like you are trying to deflect blame away from yourself so that if you do do it you wont feel as guilty for doing so.

Make up your own mind, because you're going to have to live with the decision you make not any of us.

 

[rawlwear]

well these girls do not know eachother whatsoever so thats not a worry, but honestly i have fallen for my lady kinda hard since november. im thinkin that its more not worth it than anything else.....

You just answered it yourself

 

[usmc071984]

yeah there really wasnt a question to it i guess. i cant do it. im likin the faithful thing too much

 

[Skyraider22]

Do what is in your heart you know and only you know what that is so stay strong and true to yourself:thumbsup:...Much Love Skyraider

 

[Hot Mega]

What is the dilemma? The question isn't whether to fuck her or not IMO.

The question is whether or not you're a faithful person? If you're not, fuck her. If you are, don't fuck her. It's just that simple. The circumstances (aka excuses) are irrelevant IMO.:2 cents:

 

[Montrealman]

When you have to go outside of your relationship for pleasure theirs a problem

So very true.

 

[Jane Burgess]

What is the dilemma? The question isn't whether to fuck her or not IMO.

The question is whether or not you're a faithful person? If you're not, fuck her. If you are, don't fuck her. It's just that simple. The circumstances (aka excuses) are irrelevant IMO.:2 cents:

Bingo. :thumbsup:

 

[sproing99]

Faithful is good - leave it !

IMO

 

[Ashleigh]

Don't cheat!!!

Thats all I gotta add to this discussion lol. Cheaters are scum.

 

[currynchips]

November to June - short term relationship. Do you wish for it to continue?

Myself, after 4 years, I have never cheated. However it is only recently that the thought of cheating has completely gone from my mind. I definitely would turn down Tori Black, Ashlynn Brooke and Jessica Jane Clement even if they were all together on my bed.

 

[skechers]

Would you care if the woman you're seeing found herself in the same situation, and decided to take her friend up on the offer?

 

[Legzman]

Fuck her!

 

[belgianass]

6 months in a relationship and allready thinking of cheating, my advice is to do it. If you have to think about it you're still not sure ... Better to enjoy your young life, then to act like an old one.
If you can't say immediately "no" at these kind of questions then there is allready doubt ...

 

[STDiva]

6 months in a relationship and allready thinking of cheating, my advice is to do it. If you have to think about it you're still not sure ... Better to enjoy your young life, then to act like an old one.
If you can't say immediately "no" at these kind of questions then there is allready doubt ...

Truth. If you were indeed a faithful person, this "dilemma" would never have come up. You would have said no, and that would have been that.

But you thought about it. You're clearly not ready to settle down with one person and you've only been together 6 months.

Also. If you're going to cheat. Don't do it with a friend. She'll always be around. And you'll end up doing it again. And again. And again. And eventually you'll quit covering your tracks and get caught.

 

[hillhopper]

I wouldn't mess with what you have! That being said.......are either of them into threesomes? Everyone wins!

 

[Baill Inneraora]

If your tempted, there is something wrong with your current relationship