My GF and I were talking, are we the only type of interracial couple like this?

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

Seems to me like only thing compatible is his imagination and keyboard.

:dunno:

No that would apply to someone who is grumpy and bitter like you. Instead of beating your keyboard to relieve some frustration by flaming me perhaps you should ask why I posted this thread you lowlife scumbag. If I had a "imaginary" girlfriend, I would be posting on this site for long periods of time and would actually make around 20 posts a day, even ask for good porn movies rather than burning time. Thing is, I find people on this forum to be more sane, funny thing, I had a high opinion of you.

Look, fact is fact.

Indian guys are severely limited when it comes to dating because their parents are 10 times worse than the Nazis in 1940s Germany.

Okay comparing Indian parents to the Nazis in Germany isn't fair, the Nazis were better and more human.

The average Indian (India) kid gets ass whippings for making B's in school, if he looks at a girl for quite some time his mother will probably drag him and beat him. Believe me, I live near some Indians and I have seen it here and wherever I have been to with Indians in it. I really do not know if normal Indians exist.

I have seen Indian guys with White girlfriends and those are the few and lucky ones who escaped from their muchworsethannazi parents or ones who had the parents who were less lenient (Less lenient Indian parents means that White girls are okay if you are not going with an Indian girl).

Where I live, MOST if not ALL Indians only date other Indians or don't date at all. Obviously I have my reasons to wonder about this stuff and you guys can boast about not caring about race as much as you want but from the eyes of a minority, race means a lot. I get stares, nasty looks, even yelled at for being with someone outside my own race and I feel that maybe I am the only person in a relationship like this. You think I wanna be this skin color? Screw that, this Indian culture is garbage and it is sad I have to be dragged into this whole mess just because my last name is Indian. And the Indian community is full of stalkers, like Russell Peters said, if Indians hate ANYONE, it is each other.

 

[WaQMaN]

man i hate racist
i really really do but some people in the u.s dont like interracial couples but they prolly wont admit.

so like ash said people are people,if you guys love each other then who cares what anyone else thinks.

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

man i hate racist
i really really do but some people in the u.s dont like interracial couples but they prolly wont admit.

so like ash said people are people,if you guys love each other then who cares what anyone else thinks.

yea well, it gets tough when your close friends bring it up and keep asking "you are just using her for sex till your parents arrange your marriage right?"

you try to switch the topic and they ask "just what is wrong with Indian girls? Why don't you date them?"

 

[Ulysses31]

No that would apply to someone who is grumpy and bitter like you. Instead of beating your keyboard to relieve some frustration by flaming me perhaps you should ask why I posted this thread you lowlife scumbag. If I had a "imaginary" girlfriend, I would be posting on this site for long periods of time and would actually make around 20 posts a day, even ask for good porn movies rather than burning time. Thing is, I find people on this forum to be more sane, funny thing, I had a high opinion of you.

Look, fact is fact.

Indian guys are severely limited when it comes to dating because their parents are 10 times worse than the Nazis in 1940s Germany.

Okay comparing Indian parents to the Nazis in Germany isn't fair, the Nazis were better and more human.

The average Indian (India) kid gets ass whippings for making B's in school, if he looks at a girl for quite some time his mother will probably drag him and beat him. Believe me, I live near some Indians and I have seen it here and wherever I have been to with Indians in it. I really do not know if normal Indians exist.

I have seen Indian guys with White girlfriends and those are the few and lucky ones who escaped from their muchworsethannazi parents or ones who had the parents who were less lenient (Less lenient Indian parents means that White girls are okay if you are not going with an Indian girl).

Where I live, MOST if not ALL Indians only date other Indians or don't date at all. Obviously I have my reasons to wonder about this stuff and you guys can boast about not caring about race as much as you want but from the eyes of a minority, race means a lot. I get stares, nasty looks, even yelled at for being with someone outside my own race and I feel that maybe I am the only person in a relationship like this. You think I wanna be this skin color? Screw that, this Indian culture is garbage and it is sad I have to be dragged into this whole mess just because my last name is Indian. And the Indian community is full of stalkers, like Russell Peters said, if Indians hate ANYONE, it is each other.

I think the problem is that you have a problem in your own culture yet you're projecting onto everyone that's not Indian, you are now saying yourself that Indians won't tolerate mixed relationships and maybe you don't wanna marry an Indian or get an arranged marriage. At the end of the day if you are dating a non Indian and want to marry her you need to grow a pair and tell your parents, if they aren't happy then leave home and gain some independence. I know plenty of asians that moved out to get away from controlling parents and you worry way too much what other people think.

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

Alright lets clear stuff up:

My parents are as un-Indian as they come. My dad actually wants me to avoid the traditional Indian woman.

I live on my own, about a year or so ago I moved away from home and I live in a different state than my parents.

Asian kids with strict parents who moved out on their own? LOL, their parents let them do that!? Not here in America, you see 35 year old Indian guys living with their moms.

 

[Ulysses31]

Alright lets clear stuff up:

My parents are as un-Indian as they come. My dad actually wants me to avoid the traditional Indian woman.

I live on my own, about a year or so ago I moved away from home and I live in a different state than my parents.

Asian kids with strict parents who moved out on their own? LOL, their parents let them do that!? Not here in America, you see 35 year old Indian guys living with their moms.

As soon as you're 18 you can leave home and no one can stop you, it has nothing to do with letting you leave as adults are free to move as they please, this is the US we're talking about. If you live independently and have non strict parents then you are one of the lucky ones and I fail to see what your grievance is? Unless you want to change the thinking of every asian person because don't expect that to happen anytime soon

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

Problem is just that my friends and everyone make the big deal out of it and ask me too many questions about it. People just keep bringing up the caste system and arranged marriages stuff.

Also as for being 18, believe me, most Indian kids may be 21 but their parents will tie the leashes on them, those leashes are tough to break.

 

[Ulysses31]

Problem is just that my friends and everyone make the big deal out of it and ask me too many questions about it. People just keep bringing up the caste system and arranged marriages stuff.

Also as for being 18, believe me, most Indian kids may be 21 but their parents will tie the leashes on them, those leashes are tough to break.

Simply get new friends. They sound ignorant and determined to keep you down, if you don't want to confront them directly them slowly start seeing less and less of them. If they think you're gonna sit there and take it they'll keep going on at you, better to have no friends than ones like that.

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

Simply get new friends. They sound ignorant and determined to keep you down, if you don't want to confront them directly them slowly start seeing less and less of them. If they think you're gonna sit there and take it they'll keep going on at you, better to have no friends than ones like that.

Or perhaps friends like you guys =)

 

[Icewater Jones]

No that would apply to someone who is grumpy and bitter like you. Instead of beating your keyboard to relieve some frustration by flaming me perhaps you should ask why I posted this thread you lowlife scumbag.
:why:
If I had a "imaginary" girlfriend, I would be posting on this site for long periods of time and would actually make around 20 posts a day, even ask for good porn movies rather than burning time. Thing is, I find people on this forum to be more sane, funny thing, I had a high opinion of you.[/B]

So I'm flaming now??? I get called a lowlife scumbag... but I'm flaming???

Look, I'd say the same damn thing about anyone who talks about their GF in every thread they create. And yes, if you were just some lame with no life, you would post about an 'imaginary' GF just to bring some much needed attention to yourself. So you gonna blame me for being skeptical... be for real, dude. Like I said, we get it... you're indian... she's puerto rican... you keep trying to beat us over the head this. Why should anyone have to ask why you posted this thread, when you're the one acting brand new to your own situation in almost every thread you post? You're the one beating a dead horse with a dead horse, but you're mad at me for calling it??? C'mon man, you've already got a gag thread dedication... I'm just letting you know how you come off in these threads? Don't hate me for it.

 

[Straight Shooter]

Does your GF have a big Puerto Rican ass?

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

So I'm flaming now??? I get called a lowlife scumbag... but I'm flaming???

Look, I'd say the same damn thing about anyone who talks about their GF in every thread they create. And yes, if you were just some lame with no life, you would post about an 'imaginary' GF just to bring some much needed attention to yourself. So you gonna blame me for being skeptical... be for real, dude. Like I said, we get it... you're indian... she's puerto rican... you keep trying to beat us over the head this. Why should anyone have to ask why you posted this thread, when you're the one acting brand new to your own situation in almost every thread you post? You're the one beating a dead horse with a dead horse, but you're mad at me for calling it??? C'mon man, you've already got a gag thread dedication... I'm just letting you know how you come off in these threads? Don't hate me for it.

Uh yes, you are flaming by making false accusations which imply I have no life, if it wasn't Christmas I probably would not be on this forum right now.

 

[Icewater Jones]

I guess its more about what you hear and not what I say, huh??? I didn't have to assume or imply you calling me a lowlife scumbag, but Merry Christmas anyway.

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

a happy new year to you

look man, if you were to put yourself in my shoes, you would understand why I make a big deal out of race in some cases

I mean throughout my life I have been told I would never have as much success as a black or White guy in the dating world. I shun the haters and get with a pretty Latina girl (who is with her family right now visiting for christmas), I get flak from Latino guys (out loud open hate) and even get some yelling in my face. I usually ignore them but I mean seriously sh*t just ticks me off:

Why is it that a White dude can date a Latina or Asian girl or a Black guy can date a White or Latina girl and receive no hate for it but when I do it people act shocked. I mean people just act like they have seen martians and that my girlfriend and I are a match which aren't supposed to happen because of race.

I mean she cannot hang out with most Hispanics because she is dating an Indian and she tells me how some of her friends just rag on Indian and Asian guys as being a certain way.

Bunch of bullsh*t man. I swear I may end up doing some time because the next time a dude gives me flak for being with my girl, he is hitting the pavement hard.

Why do I make a big deal out of race? I have had it shoved in my face the day I moved to America, in the deep south it wasn't so bad but now I am up north it got bad again. I mean I have seen a reality which has made me ask "Why?".

Dudes tell Indian guys they can't do good with the ladies, Indian dude ends up doing good with the ladies and people wanna be a b*tch about that sh*t.

 

[ragincaucasian]

Thats life.....move on. Your situation isnt earth shattering or unique


I am a white.guy who married a black woman and had kids. Until you grow up and realize you can only live for yourself you'll be society's bitch

Who cares what anyone thinks? Seriously let your balls drop already

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

Thats life.....move on. Your situation isnt earth shattering or unique


I am a white.guy who married a black woman and had kids. Until you grow up and realize you can only live for yourself.

Who cares what anyone thinks? Seriously let your balls drop already

I bet you rarely received any animosity

 

[Icewater Jones]

I bet you rarely received any animosity

People catch heat for dating within they're own damn race, let alone other ones. Like I said we've been through it... in our unique situations, but we've been through it. Like I told you, my ex was indian like you. From a very, VERY traditional family... you don't think I had some adjustments to make? I did. I moved foward.

 

[ragincaucasian]

I bet you rarely received any animosity

i married in the early 90s....what do you think the culture/climate was in those days?

you think i sat around sulking and peeing my pants because everyone wasn't patting me on the back?

like i said, grow up. So what if you aren't accepted by small minded people? I live in the deep south......

"fuck 'em" is something you should be able to live with if your relationship with this woman is genuine. Otherwise, this sounds like something you're just doing to be niche and get attention

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

Yea well it is easy to say fuck em when things go down to just words but when they threaten to get physical do you really have that choice?

 

[ragincaucasian]

fuck 'em.....

or just quit dating the girl. Why don't you fight them? Oh, thats right....you're Indian with a small dick














j/k

She's latina? And you don't understand the Spanish 'machismo' culture? Maybe its YOU who are the ignorant one
What is the end game to your rants here? Lets say you two get married, then whats gonna happen?
You have Indian family members trying to kill you? Really?

Whats your girl think? Better yet, post a pic of her (or it didn't happen)