Need a little advice for something new.

[Red-hot]

This girl and I have been seeing for almost a year now, and I need some helpful advice about how I should approach bringing up anal with her. I can imagine this is a touchy subject with a lot of girls if its something new. This is something that I really would like to try, but its something we haven't really talked about. I don't really think she will be down for it, but that is why I'm looking for some help from you guys! If anyone has been in this situation before let me know what worked, and what didn't work for you.

Girls' opinions on this would be very much appreciated so I can see both sides of the story.

 

[squallumz]

a touchy situation. ive been asked it only twice by girls. once was my first time sexual gf who said "and i dont care which way u went in me." and one of my last gfs said "what do you think about anal?"

tread carefully when approaching the subject. i suggest going down on her and making it realllllly good. then, after awhile, try licking down there, or gently playing with her ass. seems i usually can get pretty far there.

my most valuable information though, is when and IF you do get the green light, for gods sake, be prepared and take your time and do it right. you're gonna be excited, and wanna get that thing in there, but dont. take your time. invest in silicone lube, a trainer plug, and take your damn time.

then post pics.

 

[mrtrebus]

Well you think she's going to say no so I doubt there would be any technique for changing her mind. Just ask her outright. . .:dunno:

 

[Red-hot]

I don't necessarily think she will say no, we just haven't talked about it as much. Just randomly bringing up anal isn't going to do either of us any good. Of course I'm going to talk to her, I'm just looking for some tips to help keep an open mind.

 

[mrtrebus]

If you've been going out for almost a year you must have had discussions about what you like/don't like when it comes to sex though? Just say the magic words, "Bum fun or no fun!"

 

[Red-hot]

If you've been going out for almost a year you must have had discussions about what you like/don't like when it comes to sex though? Just say the magic words, "Bum fun or no fun!"

We talk about what we like and everything, and there are zero problems in the bedroom. It is just one of those more touchy subjects that I don't want to mess up by approaching incorrectly you know? Anal didn't come up as a bad or good thing when we talk about sex, it just hasn't come up really at all. Talking with her is of course the most important, and I think that line should work haha.

 

[Killer B]

Watch a porn video with her that includes anal, then discuss. Nothing too hardcore, stick to couple friendly movies. Wicked has some pretty hot anal scenes with Alektra Blue and Jessica Drake.

 

[squallumz]

Watch a porn video with her that includes anal, then discuss. Nothing too hardcore, stick to couple friendly movies. Wicked has some pretty hot anal scenes with Alektra Blue and Jessica Drake.

my girl was always a sucker for real amateur stuff.

try http://pixies-emporium.com/ for some girl friendly real couple stuff.

 

[STDiva]

 

[AshleyC]

squallumz has given good advice.

Have you ever tried inserting a wet finger in her ass during sex?
Or while fingering try "The Shocker"
She might like it & want something more or she might slug you, lol.

Good luck buddy, it can really be great!

 

[ragincaucasian]

"discuss"?

why not just foreplay your way in?