New Pussy After Marriage

[SpexyAshleigh]

Yeah, I've been married too, so I think I can hold at least SOMEWHAT of an opinion on what a marriage should and shouldn't consist of. And IMO, lying, sticking your dick in someone else, potentially bringing home random STD's to your "beloved" and breaking up your family are NOT what a marriage should consist of.

If the OP's gf/wife is fine with him having extra curricular affairs, then fine, all the power to him, and hope he has fun! But I'm guessing she wouldn't be in the know, and therefore would be disrespected, deceived and be put at risk of not only having her heart broken but also having her sexual health compromised with. I don't see how ANY of that is a recipe for a good marriage...doesn't take a rocket scientist to know how the person you commit to should be treated.

 

[CunningStunts]

Yeah, I've been married too, so I think I can hold at least SOMEWHAT of an opinion on what a marriage should and shouldn't consist of. And IMO, lying, sticking your dick in someone else, potentially bringing home random STD's to your "beloved" and breaking up your family are NOT what a marriage should consist of.

If the OP's gf/wife is fine with him having extra curricular affairs, then fine, all the power to him, and hope he has fun! But I'm guessing she wouldn't be in the know, and therefore would be disrespected, deceived and be put at risk of not only having her heart broken but also having her sexual health compromised with. I don't see how ANY of that is a recipe for a good marriage...doesn't take a rocket scientist to know how the person you commit to should be treated.

:dito:

 

[Rey C.]

There are more than a few OCSM's and Approved Content Owners here who are swingers. Maybe one of them will chime in. Personally, I don't think it's my place to judge what other people do in relationships as long as all parties are consenting and open about it.

 

[feller469]

There are more than a few OCSM's and Approved Content Owners here who are swingers. Maybe one of them will chime in. Personally, I don't think it's my place to judge what other people do in relationships as long as all parties are consenting and open about it.

and provide photographic evidence

for research purposes, of course

 

[emceeemcee]

Yeah, I've been married too, so I think I can hold at least SOMEWHAT of an opinion on what a marriage should and shouldn't consist of. And IMO, lying, sticking your dick in someone else, potentially bringing home random STD's to your "beloved" and breaking up your family are NOT what a marriage should consist of.

Really?



*looks at engagement ring and wonders if it's too late to call it off

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

There are more than a few OCSM's and Approved Content Owners here who are swingers. Maybe one of them will chime in. Personally, I don't think it's my place to judge what other people do in relationships as long as all parties are consenting and open about it.

swinging is a totally different thing than cheating though. Sounds like this guy just wants to have a bit of fun on the side without his missus knowing. I'm all for couples who have fun swinging...the more fun the better. But having the consent of your partner is what matters...this guy likely doesn't have it from his future wifey.

 

[Shifty]

swinging is a totally different thing than cheating though. Sounds like this guy just wants to have a bit of fun on the side without his missus knowing. I'm all for couples who have fun swinging...the more fun the better. But having the consent of your partner is what matters...this guy likely doesn't have it from his future wifey.

He actually mentioned a threesome with his wife.

 

[RealMenSwallow]

I was just thinking about how I would like to be married, but maybe once or twice after that being able to experience some new pussy again. This would just help me keep my sanity, and not keep lusting after every hot babe I see. Just hit some new tail, get it out of my system, and continue with my married life. I'm even hoping that it would make me feel so guilty that I wouldn't even want to do it again. I'm sure this sounds completely wrong to some of you, but I was just trying to see if any married (or unmarried) guys felt the same way.

I'm not religious, so the whole sanctity of marriage thing doesn't bother me. I know, I'm an asshole, but I know there are others out there who feel the same way.

I'm happy I'm not in modern China.

:why:

I have a girlfriend that I will probably marry one day. I don't want a relationship with any other woman. I would prefer to have a threesome with her and another girl than to just cheat on her.

If you're not religious and don't believe in the sanctity of marriage then why would you get married? Are you going to marry this poor girl in a church? I hope not because that defies your atheist views.

:surprise: You obviously do not understand the concept of marriage and I believe other members have tried to point that out yet you press on. Why? Why get married if you want to have sex with other women? That defies the entire point of marriage.

Do you think before you're typing this or do you just enjoy asking questions to rile people up? Because if you actually think this way then I feel horribly for your girlfriend and hope she gives you a resounding "no," when you pop the question.

The only logical reason behind asking this question would be if you were already married. :2 cents:

 

[squallumz]

its called swinging. make sure you marry a girl whos actually into it or you're a fucking douchebag.

 

[fallacy]

Why is everyone getting so riled up? Most relationships are just self serving anyway, the guy is just being honest.

 

[Scarface7]

I'm not religious, so the whole sanctity of marriage thing doesn't bother me. I know, I'm an asshole, but I know there are others out there who feel the same way.

Religions really got nothing to do with sanctity of marriage.
And yes you are an asshole as well as those others.

 

[Shifty]

:why:

Start banning people for comments like this.

 

[xfire]

Is it closed minded to be against getting new pussy after marriage?

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

He actually mentioned a threesome with his wife.

He said he'd "prefer" a threesome...but also said that he'd almost like to fuck another woman and feel so guilty about it that he doesn't do it again. Consentual threesomes and fucking around behind her back are two diff things...again, if he can get his wifey in on a threesome, then all the power to him. But anything he does with another woman without his wife knowing and being ok with, just isn't cool. Like someone said, he needs to find a spouse who's ok with swinging or at the very least, sharing.

 

[Scarface7]

:why:

Start banning people for comments like this.

its called swinging. make sure you marry a girl whos actually into it or you're a fucking douchebag.

We need a smiley that says "Fuck you".

 

[Deepcover]

Well if you're curious you and your gf can try swinging.:dunno:

 

[Deepcover]

Why is everyone getting so riled up? Most relationships are just self serving anyway, the guy is just being honest.

True but it's just a question. He's gotta right to say whatever he wants. No matter how stupid it is.

 

[bnaked]

Lots of interesting responses. I wasn't trying to get people "riled up". I was just posting my thoughts to see how others felt about the subject.

Honestly, I would never actively seek someone out to cheat on my GF with. I do admit though that it would be extremely difficult to say no if some hot woman came up to me and offered no strings attached sex. Yeah, like that's going to happen. I do also daydream about what it would be like to have sex with other good looking women I know, but again I would never actively pursue them. Tell me I'm not the only guy here who has these thoughts.

Hopefully my girl will become open to swinging or threesomes, but if not, I'm fine with it just being me and her. I probably should have started this thread off with a more eloquent and carefully worded post. Thanks for the replies. Now to go jerk it to Rachel Roxxx in College Invasion Vol. 12 on Blu-Ray.

 

[Hot Mega]

Is it closed minded to be against getting new pussy after marriage?

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

 

[BadNewsBewes]

Lots of interesting responses. I wasn't trying to get people "riled up". I was just posting my thoughts to see how others felt about the subject.

Honestly, I would never actively seek someone out to cheat on my GF with. I do admit though that it would be extremely difficult to say no if some hot woman came up to me and offered no strings attached sex. Yeah, like that's going to happen. I do also daydream about what it would be like to have sex with other good looking women I know, but again I would never actively pursue them. Tell me I'm not the only guy here who has these thoughts.

Hopefully my girl will become open to swinging or threesomes, but if not, I'm fine with it just being me and her. I probably should have started this thread off with a more eloquent and carefully worded post. Thanks for the replies. Now to go jerk it to Rachel Roxxx in College Invasion Vol. 12 on Blu-Ray.

You're right, if a hot chick offered you sex at a party or on vacation, it would be very difficult to refuse. Think of your GF though, would you risk losing her over one night with a relative stranger. Fantasy is ok, but cheating on her is bad if you care for her.