Not so regular problem

[ArabJames]

So the common issue for men is that they don't last long enough in bed...I'm well aware of this. My problem is actually the opposite, I take too long to cum, even though I'm madly turned on the entire time. I don't know why, but what i want to know is has anyone else had this issue? and if so, how did you handle/how can you fix it?

Thanks in advance

PS - I'm also prepared for all smart comments provided by AndyRy and Blueballs

 

[Ace Bandage]

Quit banging ugly girls. Your dick doesn't want to shoot baby paste into bitches who look like Khloé Kardashian.

 

[lurkingdirk]

I'm also prepared for all smart comments provided by AndyRy

Quit banging ugly girls. Your dick doesn't want to shoot baby paste into bitches who look like Khloé Kardashian.

He never disappoints!
:1orglaugh

 

[shimmy2]

I take too long to cum

that means you have dick control. grab a camera, hire a girl, and get to work.

 

[TheOrangeCat]

that means you have dick control. grab a camera, hire a girl, and get to work.

Smooothe! :bowdown:

 

[BlueBalls]

Fake it and then once she's asleep stroke one out in her hair.

 

[Chica]

i think it's just one of those things sweetie. my hubby takes a long time to cum also. he said he's always been like that.

 

[BoboBrowne]

I got this too, but it's because I'm on depression meds. I literally CAN'T cum sometimes. So fuckin' frustrating.

 

[GodsEmbryo]

I'm a slow cummer too. But I don't see it as a problem, more as an advance.
Maybe you're to focused on cumming, believe me it won't work. Just take the time and enjoy it. Maybe you can expand things: start with a massage where she jerks you off before you start to hump her, I don't know, use your imagination.

 

[vodkazvictim]

So the common issue for men is that they don't last long enough in bed...I'm well aware of this. My problem is actually the opposite, I take too long to cum, even though I'm madly turned on the entire time. I don't know why, but what i want to know is has anyone else had this issue? and if so, how did you handle/how can you fix it?

Thanks in advance

PS - I'm also prepared for all smart comments provided by AndyRy and Blueballs

I've had it. Try masturbating less.
Also, sex is best with someone you love.

 

[vodkazvictim]

How often do you masturbate?

 

[shimmy2]

there are 2 reasons why I usually don't hire guys for my videos, in the past its been:

1. cant get wood, or keep wood
2. can't cum on demand

both "problems" are mental. your mind can make you do both if you train your body right. some guys need 2 minutes of alone time to relax and focus on sexy thoughts. i always have a good session if i workout right before sex... run, pushups, swim, weights, bikeride, etc... if your heartbeats already elevated you're gonna have a good time, have more energy, and your lady will really feel it. keep in mind you can usually feel your heart beating out your chest @ 130bpm when you're orgasming so if you're a slow "lovemaker" it may be hard for you to come until you work up your heartrate

 

[StanScratch]

Seven minutes and 23 seconds with dirk will end that problem permanently.

 

[Death-Proof-69]

you wear condoms or bareback? if you're wearing condoms try using thinner ones, also don't use tiny ones that cut off circulation. do more foreplay, have her suck your dick for a while before starting, get you closer to cumming before you stick it in her. concentrate on cumming and see yourself doing it when you want to, if you can get in the right mindset you should be able to make yourself cum pretty much whenever you want...if i'm properly stimulated most of the time i can cum within a minute of when i want to. convenient when my girl wants me to cum at the same time as her.

 

[lurkingdirk]

Seven minutes and 23 seconds with dirk will end that problem permanently.

And that's on a slow day!

 

[bravado]

I've had the same problem on the first weeks I began taking anti-depressive pills (Effexor). It really slows down the sex metabolism but lasts only for some weeks.

 

[dblood]

u build a tolerance or something
masterbated alot eh...

 

[Tittyman5000]

Lucky bastard, my girl is so hott when Im giving it to her good I cant help but wanna cum, I even use the old methods of ''think baseball, or Rodney Dangerield'' to try not to come too fast, but the thing I do if I wanna last long is drink before, get that Whiskey Dick, I can bang her all night!
Do you drink before?

 

[ArabJames]

you wear condoms or bareback? if you're wearing condoms try using thinner ones, also don't use tiny ones that cut off circulation. do more foreplay, have her suck your dick for a while before starting, get you closer to cumming before you stick it in her. concentrate on cumming and see yourself doing it when you want to, if you can get in the right mindset you should be able to make yourself cum pretty much whenever you want...if i'm properly stimulated most of the time i can cum within a minute of when i want to. convenient when my girl wants me to cum at the same time as her.

i wear a condom...but next time ill try out a thinner one...see how that goes

there are 2 reasons why I usually don't hire guys for my videos, in the past its been:

1. cant get wood, or keep wood
2. can't cum on demand

both "problems" are mental. your mind can make you do both if you train your body right. some guys need 2 minutes of alone time to relax and focus on sexy thoughts. i always have a good session if i workout right before sex... run, pushups, swim, weights, bikeride, etc... if your heartbeats already elevated you're gonna have a good time, have more energy, and your lady will really feel it. keep in mind you can usually feel your heart beating out your chest @ 130bpm when you're orgasming so if you're a slow "lovemaker" it may be hard for you to come until you work up your heartrate

ill try out working out before hand as well...see what results i get...and getting wood isnt the problem...far from it actually...and i can cum...i just basically have to resort to masturbation for almost all of is as opposed to getting it through oral/intercourse

 

[Deepcover]

I find it harder to cum with a condom on. Anybody else have that problem?