What you are failing to see is the necessity to preserve states powers. The same powers that give little and big ones the same rights. Rights to write their own laws. Collect their own taxes. Spend them as they see fit. The same rights granted to Montana and California. You can't have the masses to dictate everything for everybody. Speed limits, gun laws, minimum wage. All things that are better regulated by those living in those individually governed states.
On a personal note, what do I like to do most? Bet on a horse. Considering that less than half of you have ever bet on a horse at a racetrack more than once, and probably don't care one way or the another if anyone else does, it is illegal for me to do so in 11 states. I can participate in their charital games. Commercial, lotteries and Indian gaming. I just can't bet a fucking horse. No pari-mutuals and no racetracks. Shit, only half of the states race anything at all. That being said, why can't I bet on a horse in all of those NASCAR states. Yup, here is the list.
Mississippi.
Missouri.
District of Columbia.
Alaska. (they get a pass on the horses but I'll bet that plenty of dollars get exchanged on dog sled shit.)
Georgia.
Hawaii. (not Dixie but still deserve their fair pass.)
North Carolina.
South Carolina.
Tennessee.
Utah. NASCAR and you can marry as many as you want.
Vermont. They are still chasing out witches.
So as we can see, the masses don't give a rat's ass. Just because the masses are not of me, shouldn't I be able to bet a horse in any state?