Recovery Time

[snatcher069]

I know there are others on this board that are either married or have a girlfriend, so my question is to these people. Lately my girlfriend has been more frisky than usual, usually wanting to keep going even though I've spent myself for the second (sometimes third) time. So, the question to you is, is there any way to somehow shorten the recovery time between orgasms? I work out six days a week, eat right, and take health supplements, but for some reason our sessions have started to take their toll on me. Is this just old age catching up on me, or is there something I can do? I hate letting my girl down, but to paraphrase a line from Zap Branigan, 'the spirit is willing, but the flesh is spongy and weak'.

 

[Goblin]

Married men won't know... married women don't let us have a second Chance.

 

[tunsty]

Just feign an injury of some sort... groin/lower back/tongue (if required).
Failing that, buy her a super large dildo... :thumbsup:

 

[foxycougar]

Just feign an injury of some sort... groin/lower back/tongue (if required).
Failing that, buy her a super large dildo... :thumbsup:

Lol, that's hilarious, Tunsty!

snatcher, if you begin to work out your kegel muscles you should be able to control your orgasm for longer. It won't help your recovery time but if you last longer then you don't really need recovery time. Or, perhaps you should lengthen the time that you spend on foreplay?

 

[MightyKrendall]

Yeah, try spending more time on foreplay. If you manage to bring her off more often she might be less...frisky.

 

[parker]

Just feign an injury of some sort... groin/lower back/tongue (if required).
Failing that, buy her a super large dildo... :thumbsup:

I get the feeling you "call in sick" to work a lot! :1orglaugh

 

[lightning]

My advice would be to mix it up. Give her some oral for a while, you can go slightly limp then if you have to, then have her blow you to get things going again. Use a vibrator on her after you shoot your first load. It can be quite erotic watching her use a vibrator on herself. Try anal if you haven't, she may want you at half mast for that for starters. Move to another room, or the car, or outside... Go have a quick drink between sessions.

 

[snatcher069]

Thanks all of you that came to my aid. However, I think I'm still where I started. I'm all about foreplay. In fact, it's foreplay that's responsible for my erections most of the time (unless she's giving me oral, that is). Also, I live in between her legs. So much so, that I usually have trouble speaking since my jaw's numb as hell. Is there any chance that her wanting more could be related to the fact that we recently stopped using condoms and she's now on birth control? Does birth control have sexual side effects that I'm unaware of? Because, if that's the case, then either I'll have to hold out longer and get her off more often since I don't know how much longer I can keep up this pace.

 

[foxycougar]

Birth control is probably the main reason! BC contains extra hormones such as testosterone which will definitely boost her sex drive!

 

[ÆGEAN]

lol at the side effects, i know what you mean snatcher as it happens to me also! :o

 

[Ric0chet]

The 'side effects' are the worse problem. Just my experiences and I know birth control effects women different, but it didn't do me any good when they took them. Hormones kicked in and I became public enemy No 1!!!! Sounds to me like you've the other end of the scale..... the better end if there is such a thing!

 

[Mr Miyagi]

You could always try faking your first few orgasms. (yeah...apparently men do it as well!).

 

[Peter Gazinya]

Dude! It's So Obvious

could be related to the fact that we recently stopped using condoms

I don't know about you but when the condoms come off I'm blowing loads about 5 times quicker. Maybe working out 6 days a week is a tad too much. Instead of working out that 6th day, fuck your girlfriend all day long. That should help.

 

[snatcher069]

Thanks all for coming to my aid once more. Checked into it, and sure enough, it does increase the level of testerone in women. Don't know how to fake an orgasm (won't she know if i don't cum?) and I need to work out six days a week since I have a somewhat slow metabolism. It drops and the love handles start setting in. And yes Peter, the sensation without the condom is much more noticeable than with, but I'm still hanging in there. Anyway, does anyone know of a good way to break it to the girlfriend that this pace is literally killing me (my penis feels more sore getting an erection than my muscles do when I work out)? I've tried just giving her oral and getting her off a few times, but she always wants me inside her after. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but this is really starting to hurt now. I need time to heal.

 

[Mr Miyagi]

Perhaps it is time to be honest with her ?

 

[holdol]

Great advice Mr. Miyagi :glugglug: Been married for a while,honesty and communication works best, married or single.

 

[foxycougar]

Perhaps it is time to be honest with her ?

I agree, too. She needs to know how this is affecting you. If she is still mega-horny maybe you could go to a porn shop together and pick out sex toys for her to use on herself or for you to use on her.

 

[Summer]

Yeah fake it!
and here's how lol take note lads and ladies cover ur eye's up!






FOXY,LL STOP LOOKING!!!

take ur lady from behind, i.e doggy style then do the moan or groan or whatever you do before u (apparently shoot your wad) then shot some warm yougart up her arse LOL problem solved

 

[roccstar]

Perhaps it is time to be honest with her ?

I'm with Miyagi on this, and also tunsty to a degree.

If you can't keep up with her and it's becoming a problem, you're not gonna solve it by trying to be some sort of sexual superhero by shagging through the pain barrier. You've gotta talk to her.

The bit I sort of agree with from what tunsty said is the toy bit. For those times you're not up for the job, get her a vibrator/dildo which you can use on her. (Obviously talk to her about a toy rather than just whipping out a king-dong and chasing her round the room with it). Make sure you use the toy on her, that way you'll both enjoy it - and you wont feel left out. Only problem is You Might be posting back saying your arms aching...

 

[BNF]

I work out six days a week, eat right, and take health supplements, but for some reason our sessions have started to take their toll on me.

What do you mean "work out"?
Six days a week?

That can lead to overtraining VERY quickly! If you are talking about anarobic activity (lifting weights, strength training, body building), six days a week can/may/will make you weaker and smaller. Even for aerobic activity, six days a week is an awful lot.

Overtraining symptoms can be exactly what you describe. Also: frequent colds, drawn appearance, fatigue, loss of appetite, weakness, depression.....

I would seriously look at your regime and reconsider it - you could be spending all of your reserve just to stay in one place - and have nothing left in the bedroom on top of it all.


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