Virgin and the size of my dick?

[Hypergalaxy]

My dick is about 4 2/3inches. when hard. Still a virgin I'm just wondering some people's opinion on if a girl would look down upon me for the size of my dick?

I am not trying to be mean or ruin the your self esteem but to say that the size of a guys penis doesnt matter to girls would be a lie.. Thats like saying guys dont care if a girl is extremely loose.. Most girls do care about size and want someone who is at least the average(6 inch) or a little above the average.. The best advice I can give you is to be prepared to have your fair share of girls who arent satisfied with your size and want to move on BUT dont lose hope that there IS at least one girl that you will meet that wont mind it and like you for the rest of your qualities

 

[jamrak]

they dont care. stop using porn as the standard for dong size.

they? who "they"?
I know a lot of girls who DO care a lot.

And I do not know even one girl who does not care. We must be living on the different planets :dunno:

oh.. forget about. size does matter or does not matter question is the same never ending argue, as palestinian and israeli conflict.

PS: sexe247, try to think positive: small dick can be an advantage when you want to convince girl in doing anal or deepthroat :thefinger

 

[kristoflaw10]

How longs your tongue... the thing is a miracle worker if you know how to use it. flylicker

 

[STDiva]

they? who "they"?
I know a lot of girls who DO care a lot.

And I do not know even one girl who does not care. We must be living on the different planets :dunno:

oh.. forget about. size does matter or does not matter question is the same never ending argue, as palestinian and israeli conflict.

PS: sexe247, try to think positive: small dick can be an advantage when you want to convince girl in doing anal or deepthroat :thefinger

good point!! haha

Assuming he lays the moves on a girl, gets her in his room and they're ready to go, what is she going to do...see his dong and decide not to have sex?

it may not be AS GOOD as a bigger dick, but she isn't going to turn it down.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

good point!! haha

Assuming he lays the moves on a girl, gets her in his room and they're ready to go, what is she going to do...see his dong and decide not to have sex?

it may not be AS GOOD as a bigger dick, but she isn't going to turn it down.

Maybe not turn in away right then but isnt going to come back for seconds

 

[alexpnz]

Just keep trimming the pubes and youll be alright, Im in your neighborhood and I used to get anxiety about it but the bottom line is a chick can get herself off with her finger if she wants to......just show you are willing to put the extra effort in and are willing to go the extra mile or two (eg. lick a chicks asshole ever once in a while! :thumbsup

 

[STDiva]

Maybe not turn in away right then but isnt going to come back for seconds

better than nothing. and practice makes perfect.

 

[sexe247]

didn't think I'd get this much feedback but w/e

 

[Bone]

Maybe not turn in away right then but isnt going to come back for seconds

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she will come back IF SHE CARES ABOUT THE PERSON! isn't that what it's supposed to be all about anyway?

i'm about the same size and i never had anyone complain. in fact, my wife says i'm the shortest dick she ever had but also the most fun because of creativity, oral skills, likeability etc. :2 cents:

 

[DOA82]

My dick is about 4 2/3inches. when hard. Still a virgin I'm just wondering some people's opinion on if a girl would look down upon me for the size of my dick?

How old are you really for starters?

 

[Ol-Skool-Perv]

is that jim tressel in your avatar?

That's me at my first Arsenal game, v Liverpool 2006. Finally fulfilled a lifetime dream and the 3 nil win was just in the cards. Perfect fucking day!

 

[jamrak]

Assuming he lays the moves on a girl, gets her in his room and they're ready to go, what is she going to do...see his dong and decide not to have sex?

of course, hardly she would tell it straight. but a glance full of disappointment can ruin the whole atmosphere and kill any possibility of erection.

and even if sex happens, it well might be the first and the last one with that chick. and cuz chicks like to gossip, the whole neighborhood will know about the guy with small dong. the more harder it will be to lay down next time. something like that I think!

 

[Galactic]

How longs your tongue... the thing is a miracle worker if you know how to use it. flylicker

This is the advice right here. There are plenty of things that you can do that do not involve the cock, things that if done properly will have her spinning around on the bed using language that would make a sailor blush.

Quit worrying so much about it. You have what you have, and there is nothing you can do about it. Just because you're not hung like an elephant doesn't mean laughter filled sex for you. Keep looking for a cool girl you get along with, and you'll see that it really doesn't matter.

By the way.....stay a virgin until you are ready to give it up. Seriously. Rush into it, you'll see that sex really is over hyped......and once it's gone, it's gone.

Just my :2 cents:

 

[sexe247]

How old are you really for starters?

18 no lie here. It's just starting to hit me since my friends are always talking about one-night stands that they've had and I've never even had sex

 

[Doc Scurlock]

Learn to use your tongue and fingers. An orgasm is an orgasm.

 

[Ol-Skool-Perv]

18 no lie here. It's just starting to hit me since my friends are always talking about one-night stands that they've had and I've never even had sex

Bro you doing just fine. Being a ringside observer during pussy story sessions will not last long. I was a proud virgin at your age, I only wanted sex through real connection(and that never happened), but by my mid-20's I felt like I had to do the unthinkable and lose my virginity with a whore. I'm now back to my old rule and still waiting for the 2nd time I have sex. Wish I hadn't done it the first time, let me tell you. Being a 34 year-old who's had sex once is worse than being a virgin.

 

[Rick2000]

^What's wrong with using whores? I've boned one so far and it was great. It's how I plan to live the rest of my life.

 

[Skyraider22]

Do you take your vitamin If not makr sure you take them :thumbsup:

 

[Gordar]

I am not trying to be mean or ruin the your self esteem but to say that the size of a guys penis doesnt matter to girls would be a lie.. Thats like saying guys dont care if a girl is extremely loose.. Most girls do care about size and want someone who is at least the average(6 inch) or a little above the average.. The best advice I can give you is to be prepared to have your fair share of girls who arent satisfied with your size and want to move on BUT dont lose hope that there IS at least one girl that you will meet that wont mind it and like you for the rest of your qualities

Maybe that would be the case if girls were as oriented on sex as men are, but in general, the female psyche is different than ours.

(I'm not a girl, so please keep in mind that this is pure hearsay)

1. Girls enjoy sex even when do do not have an orgasm every time, for men it would mean a failed night of sex (& maybe a reason to visit a doctor)

2. Women enjoy foreplay, afterplay and just cuddling on the couch when you're watching a movie. Women will often use horror or thriller movies as an excuse to crouch up to you. A night only spent cuddling is a waste of time for most younger men...

I'm not going to say SimplexDesign is totally wrong, but even though the size of your dick might be a slight turn off, it shouldn't be (& usually isn't, there are of course some exceptions) the decisive factor in a relationship.

EDIT: should have read the 2nd page... I assumed you wanted a relationship, not a fuckbuddy.... My post applies to a decent relationship....

 

[Wainkerr99]

You know what? Breasts become saggy. Women pick up weight really fast. After giving birth, women tend to keep the plump.

In today's world where people sometimes work two jobs, only porn performers have time to get to a gym.

The people working out make time, are highly motivated, conscious of their image.

That lot will go for the outward appearance, at least at first.

Thing is, there are not always hard and fast rules. Birds of a feather....

Both sides have to work on things. Some women may cheat if they are not getting banged all night every night. I don't know about you - but once or twice a week is ok for me. There are other things to do. I simply don't have the energy, the motivation to be a sex machine, or the desire to keep cleaning up afterwards. One needs to plan one's weekends and time together. Keeping her satisfied can be based on love.

Adult films are like Hollywood - staged.