Waited on by women in stores. Forum ladies,advice/insight......please???

[lachemo]

How can one tell if a woman is really interested in you when they help you at their work instead of just being unusually nice to sell etc.........

Example. Walgreens today to buy razor blades. There was a very attractive woman working that isle. I walked by her and we smiled at each other. The razors were in a locked case so I got her attention and asked for assistance.

I joked about having to keep them locked and she shook the keys up in the air right in front of me with a big smile.Just nickel n dime talk going back after that.She said "I'll ring you up over here",then, "Im taking care of you so you dont have to wait in line". This is prob irrelevant but the store is never busy and this time was no different,there was nobody in line at the other register.

To shorten up an already too-long story for you, I just said the typical thanks alot for taking care of me separately,whatever.........And got a big smile in return with a no prob kinda phrase.

Ive had 2 long term girlfriends so I never had to really search much.My women reading knowledge never had to be sharp. In this sitch,was this a nice as hell girl giving an extra "customers 1st" sweetness or do you think she wouldnt have minded a phone# inquiry? What signs can one look for?

She didnt do anything out of the "everyday-employee-ordinary" to give a hint of interest, but thats it right there.................how do you know even when they keep the hints subtle?

 

[Legzman]

You can tell by the way they smile at you. If its a flirty smile or just a fake plastered smile that they are required to produce at their job. Also their eyes give it away too.

Hard to explain, but I know what I'm trying to say. Someone help me out here? As for your recent experience. She may have been bored or genuinely interested. I can't say for sure, but it wouldn't have hurt to ask her #.

 

[mrtrebus]

She is clearly mentally unstable.
I'd check with the management that she even works there!!

 

[lachemo]

You can tell by the way they smile at you. If its a flirty smile or just a fake plastered smile that they are required to produce at their job. Also their eyes give it away too.

Hard to explain, but I know what I'm trying to say. Someone help me out here? As for your recent experience. She may have been bored or genuinely interested. I can't say for sure, but it wouldn't have hurt to ask her #.

This was a genuine smile no doubt in my mind. However,its very rare but some people can stay genuine while they perform their jobs. As far as her eyes, I have 2 hoop earings in my left ear,one in my right and a cartilidge stud in my ear. Its easy for the eyes to get directed there but she checked em' out 3 or 4 times with that cute smile. Some chicks either dig or are fascinated by piercings so that prob dont even matter.

Didnt ask for # cause Im a way too old fashioned fucker at 34 yrs old,dude. I dont bother people with shit unless I know they want to be bothered............

 

[lachemo]

She is clearly mentally unstable.
I'd check with the management that she even works there!!

lol, nice. I think she got unstable by my hypnotizing good looks Mr. :thefinger

 

[mrtrebus]

This was a genuine smile no doubt in my mind. However,its very rare but some people can stay genuine while they perform their jobs. As far as her eyes, I have 2 hoop earings in my left ear,one in my right and a cartilidge stud in my ear. Its easy for the eyes to get directed there but she checked em' out 3 or 4 times with that cute smile. Some chicks either dig or are fascinated by piercings so that prob dont even matter.

Didnt ask for # cause Im a way too old fashioned fucker at 34 yrs old,dude. I dont bother people with shit unless I know they want to be bothered............

She probably wanted to deal with you as quickly & courteously as possible so you would leave the store!! She was scared of you

 

[Legzman]

Didnt ask for # cause Im a way too old fashioned fucker at 34 yrs old,dude. I dont bother people with shit unless I know they want to be bothered............

Ask her when her lunch break is and offer to buy her lunch then. Never hurts to try. Your offering her free food. Fuck even if she isn't interested in you she might take you up on your offer. I would if some chick I couldn't care for was gonna buy me steak for lunch!

 

[BlueBalls]

Okay heres what you do.

Wake up at aroun 7am tomorrow morning, do all the things you normally do. Shit, shower, shave all three are important to force yourself to do them. Now get dressed up, you can either go casual in jeans or if you really wanna make an impression you could get yourself all suited and booted up and look as flash as a shit stain on tight white underwear. As you have showered you'll probably smell decent anyway, unless you have a sweat problem which causes the BO to start the stink up again 10 minutes after you've had a shower, like certain people I shall not name for legal reasons. If this is you, spray as much of the over expensive crap you have lying around your house onto your person until your eyes water and you think you're going to pass out. But don't fret that woozy feeling you're having is only going to make the situation better in the long run and let's face it that shit wears off so by the time you actually get there you'll probably stink with fear sweat anyway, but at least you would have tried.

Now make your way to the store, there you will meet up with 3 guys who you will hire now (why are you still reading this you should be hiring!), they will homosexual prostitues but for the amount of money you are paying them I'm sure they'll do whatever you want. Oh, and I almost forgot make sure they're wearing something as classy as you are, if not, hot pants and vests will do fine. Just try to hide the track marks it doesn't make a good first impression.

Now you're probably going to have to wait around for a while for her to come on shift, so you and your new friends need to walk around the store looking for something to do and just because they're male whores doesnt mean you dont have to talk to them. Although as you are paying them who cares what you do with them. But the one thing you need to do is keep a lookout for her, she might be back in the same place as before but she might not, who knows with these supermarket people! But just make sure you're prepared and don't let the whores run off and start turning tricks in the bathrooms. Doing this by yourself or with only one or two people behind whilst the other ones are off somewhere sucking off the day manager really isnt going to bode well for you,

But when the time finally arrives and you see her and she's not as beautiful as you remembered but you'd still fuck her here's what you do. Gain her attention, whistle, yell, get someone to tap her on the shoulder and point her in your direction. Once she is looking your way, wave be polite and say hello and then leap into a 4 way vocal strip harmony of Frankie Valli's hit single Can't Take My Eyes Off You. You can dance if you want just dont start grinding on the other guys it wont look good. Let them do it to each other if you want it'll make you look slightly more butch. But rememvber when you get to the chorus you have to hit that high note, if not you're toast. Sorry.

Once the song is over and she looks into your eyes as you're half naked, dripping with sweat and about as out of breath as you've ever been, you'll know whether she liked you or not.


Come back tomorrow and tell us whether or not it worked out. :hatsoff:



But, if you get arrested for prostitution or public indecency then it's better you not tell us. People don't like to hear an unhappy ending.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PzpWKAGvGdA&feature=related :nanner:

 

[STDiva]

The only way to know for sure is to ask her. I've been to restaurants where the server is sitting with me, touching, flirting and so forth. After I paid the bill and tipped very generously, I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime, and she had a boyfriend. fml. I was a sucker.

Your case is a little different though, since she isn't working for tips. You should just ask her. If she says no, ah well. Go to a different counter next time.

 

[Rey C.]

If you get a (functioning) phone number, she's interested. If you don't, or you get one that starts with 555... you are outta luck.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Well looks like I'm the first female to answer.
I think that there are a lot of reasons she could have been extra friendly and super nice, the first one being, yes she could have very well been attracted to you. The second one being, her job could be on shaky grounds right now, (ie: she has been coming in late or getting in some kind of trouble) so shes really trying to get as many positive comment cards as she can to save her ass and being X-tra nice to customers (especially guys and elderly people) will help. The third thing being she was having a really great day, maybe she had just had some mind blowing sex that morning or maybe she won 100 bucks on a scratch off lotto ticket, whatever it might have been maybe she was just so happy that her good mood made her seem flirty in a way. Or she could just be one of those really annoying people who are like ALWAYS chipper and in a great mood no matter what...

But to get to the point, there's no way to be 100% sure unless you ask, so even if you are 'an old fashioned fucker who is 34' you still should take the risk of asking for her number. If that's a little to bold for you then casually make a statement like "your boyfriend sure is lucky to be able to look into those eyes every night" 9 times out of 10 if shes interested she will say 'oh I don't have a boyfriend' and kind of giggle. If she does in fact have a boyfriend then she'll state so then, & if she isn't interested she'll lie and say she has a boyfriend. Good luck

 

[sexarise! chick]

You should have asked her for her number. It's not like she's working for commission. So she probably did like you.

 

[Boothbabe]

It's actually how friends of mine met each other. She worked @ the local supermarket and he was one of the regular customers. One day he asked her out and in september they will be married 4 years.

The point is, just go for it. If she says no that's too bad but you'll never have to wonder "what if".

 

[ChefChiTown]

How can one tell if a woman is really interested in you when they help you at their work instead of just being unusually nice to sell etc.........

Example. Walgreens today to buy razor blades. There was a very attractive woman working that isle. I walked by her and we smiled at each other. The razors were in a locked case so I got her attention and asked for assistance.

I joked about having to keep them locked and she shook the keys up in the air right in front of me with a big smile.Just nickel n dime talk going back after that.She said "I'll ring you up over here",then, "Im taking care of you so you dont have to wait in line". This is prob irrelevant but the store is never busy and this time was no different,there was nobody in line at the other register.

To shorten up an already too-long story for you, I just said the typical thanks alot for taking care of me separately,whatever.........And got a big smile in return with a no prob kinda phrase.

Ive had 2 long term girlfriends so I never had to really search much.My women reading knowledge never had to be sharp. In this sitch,was this a nice as hell girl giving an extra "customers 1st" sweetness or do you think she wouldnt have minded a phone# inquiry? What signs can one look for?

She didnt do anything out of the "everyday-employee-ordinary" to give a hint of interest, but thats it right there.................how do you know even when they keep the hints subtle?

Here's a crazy idea that hardly any guy ever thinks of...

Try asking her if she's interested.

The truth is that all working women (and men too) are supposed to be polite, courteous and somewhat flirtatious. It makes you, as a customer, feel like you're special, which increases the odds of having you as a repeat customer. It's all about money. Bartenders flirt for tips. Waitresses flirt for tips. But, cashiers flirt for repeat business. It's embarassing, but I used to work at a Hallmark for a while and I was ridiculously adorable to the female customers because it made them want to come back. But just because I was really nice to them didn't mean I wanted every single one of them. Like I said, it's part of the job and it's all about money.

Now, that's not to say that just because a girl is working in a retail store (for example) doesn't mean that she can't be or won't be interested in you, but that's exactly why you should ask her. Talk to her for a bit and just shoot the shit for a while. If she seems genuinely interested and seems to be having a good time talking to you, then what's the harm in asking if she wants to grab a beer after work or if she wants to get a bite to eat on her dinner break?

Be different than every other lame guy that she talks to and just be yourself. Don't be a douchebag and don't try to be some smooth operator. Just be yourself and, if you kinda like her, ask her if she wants to hang out.

 

[lachemo]

Okay heres what you do.

Wake up at aroun 7am tomorrow morning, do all the things you normally do. Shit, shower, shave all three are important to force yourself to do them. Now get dressed up, you can either go casual in jeans or if you really wanna make an impression you could get yourself all suited and booted up and look as flash as a shit stain on tight white underwear. As you have showered you'll probably smell decent anyway, unless you have a sweat problem which causes the BO to start the stink up again 10 minutes after you've had a shower, like certain people I shall not name for legal reasons. If this is you, spray as much of the over expensive crap you have lying around your house onto your person until your eyes water and you think you're going to pass out. But don't fret that woozy feeling you're having is only going to make the situation better in the long run and let's face it that shit wears off so by the time you actually get there you'll probably stink with fear sweat anyway, but at least you would have tried.

Now make your way to the store, there you will meet up with 3 guys who you will hire now (why are you still reading this you should be hiring!), they will homosexual prostitues but for the amount of money you are paying them I'm sure they'll do whatever you want. Oh, and I almost forgot make sure they're wearing something as classy as you are, if not, hot pants and vests will do fine. Just try to hide the track marks it doesn't make a good first impression.

Now you're probably going to have to wait around for a while for her to come on shift, so you and your new friends need to walk around the store looking for something to do and just because they're male whores doesnt mean you dont have to talk to them. Although as you are paying them who cares what you do with them. But the one thing you need to do is keep a lookout for her, she might be back in the same place as before but she might not, who knows with these supermarket people! But just make sure you're prepared and don't let the whores run off and start turning tricks in the bathrooms. Doing this by yourself or with only one or two people behind whilst the other ones are off somewhere sucking off the day manager really isnt going to bode well for you,

But when the time finally arrives and you see her and she's not as beautiful as you remembered but you'd still fuck her here's what you do. Gain her attention, whistle, yell, get someone to tap her on the shoulder and point her in your direction. Once she is looking your way, wave be polite and say hello and then leap into a 4 way vocal strip harmony of Frankie Valli's hit single Can't Take My Eyes Off You. You can dance if you want just dont start grinding on the other guys it wont look good. Let them do it to each other if you want it'll make you look slightly more butch. But rememvber when you get to the chorus you have to hit that high note, if not you're toast. Sorry.

Once the song is over and she looks into your eyes as you're half naked, dripping with sweat and about as out of breath as you've ever been, you'll know whether she liked you or not.


Come back tomorrow and tell us whether or not it worked out. :hatsoff:



But, if you get arrested for prostitution or public indecency then it's better you not tell us. People don't like to hear an unhappy ending.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PzpWKAGvGdA&feature=related :nanner:

I havent laughed that hard in ages bro...........you had to be trippin' face on acid to think of that shit on the fly. Theres no way you'll convince me thats your genuine imagination. Nice!

Well looks like I'm the first female to answer.
I think that there are a lot of reasons she could have been extra friendly and super nice, the first one being, yes she could have very well been attracted to you. The second one being, her job could be on shaky grounds right now, (ie: she has been coming in late or getting in some kind of trouble) so shes really trying to get as many positive comment cards as she can to save her ass and being X-tra nice to customers (especially guys and elderly people) will help. The third thing being she was having a really great day, maybe she had just had some mind blowing sex that morning or maybe she won 100 bucks on a scratch off lotto ticket, whatever it might have been maybe she was just so happy that her good mood made her seem flirty in a way. Or she could just be one of those really annoying people who are like ALWAYS chipper and in a great mood no matter what...

But to get to the point, there's no way to be 100% sure unless you ask, so even if you are 'an old fashioned fucker who is 34' you still should take the risk of asking for her number. If that's a little to bold for you then casually make a statement like "your boyfriend sure is lucky to be able to look into those eyes every night" 9 times out of 10 if shes interested she will say 'oh I don't have a boyfriend' and kind of giggle. If she does in fact have a boyfriend then she'll state so then, & if she isn't interested she'll lie and say she has a boyfriend. Good luck

Why am I not surprised that the first non-sarcastic response and advice came from one of the ladies?????? thank you dear.........

You should have asked her for her number. It's not like she's working for commission. So she probably did like you.

very good point

It's actually how friends of mine met each other. She worked @ the local supermarket and he was one of the regular customers. One day he asked her out and in september they will be married 4 years.

The point is, just go for it. If she says no that's too bad but you'll never have to wonder "what if".

another non-sarcastic response from one of the ladies...........coincidence?

Here's a crazy idea that hardly any guy ever thinks of...

Try asking her if she's interested.

The truth is that all working women (and men too) are supposed to be polite, courteous and somewhat flirtatious. It makes you, as a customer, feel like you're special, which increases the odds of having you as a repeat customer. It's all about money. Bartenders flirt for tips. Waitresses flirt for tips. But, cashiers flirt for repeat business. It's embarassing, but I used to work at a Hallmark for a while and I was ridiculously adorable to the female customers because it made them want to come back. But just because I was really nice to them didn't mean I wanted every single one of them. Like I said, it's part of the job and it's all about money.

Now, that's not to say that just because a girl is working in a retail store (for example) doesn't mean that she can't be or won't be interested in you, but that's exactly why you should ask her. Talk to her for a bit and just shoot the shit for a while. If she seems genuinely interested and seems to be having a good time talking to you, then what's the harm in asking if she wants to grab a beer after work or if she wants to get a bite to eat on her dinner break?

Be different than every other lame guy that she talks to and just be yourself. Don't be a douchebag and don't try to be some smooth operator. Just be yourself and, if you kinda like her, ask her if she wants to hang out.

Thank you as well..........

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

I get hit on all the time when I'm wearing my uniform. I'm kind of flattered by the attention from the soccer moms but I have to remain professionally detached. It's the same with women who serve you. Fraternization with customers is cause for termination at a lot of places.

Women working the counter at a Walgreen's or serving you at a bar are there to work. If a bartender is flirting with you it's probably that she figures you for an easy mark.

If their is a genuine connection you can stop beating around the bush and ask her out. But make it quick and don't keep her from helping anyone else.

 

[lachemo]

I thought this would be one of those kinda "looking for advice" threads that would die after 1 response. I appreciate the advice etc very much.I go into this store at least 6 or 8 times a month and this is the first time Ive ever seen her in there. I never go on Sundays,this was an exception because of schedule,but that dont mean shit cause I dont live in the place.

I'm gonna go in more often for things I would usually get elsewhere. Another reason I'm old fashioned these days about bothering people is because of the age guessing game. She had to be at least 25 or over,no doubt, but theres women that look 35 and theyre 19 thats a fact these days.
I'm 34, I'm not the type that thinks 25 is too young for me. Fuck that its about love,however making a move and finding out she's alittle too young for my taste sucks, period. Women need to have their age posted on their name tags for situations like this................

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Women need to have their age posted on their name tags for situations like this................

:rofl::rofl::rofl: Or we could all just walk around stating are stats when first meeting a guy. As in "Hi I'm Nichole, I'm 19 horny all the time and married."

That would be mine, hopefully the walgreens wonder's will be something like "Hi im (insert name) im 28 single and have been wanting you since the first time I saw you when you came in for razors" lol in a perfect world right?

 

[mrtrebus]

Women need to have their age posted on their name tags for situations like this................

& their relationship status -
Single :thumbsup:
Married
Divorced :shy:
Widowed artysml: :sex::love-smi::nannerf1::nannerf2::blowjob:

 

[lachemo]

:rofl::rofl::rofl: Or we could all just walk around stating are stats when first meeting a guy. As in "Hi I'm Nichole, I'm 19 horny all the time and married."

That would be mine, hopefully the walgreens wonder's will be something like "Hi im (insert name) im 28 single and have been wanting you since the first time I saw you when you came in for razors" lol in a perfect world right?

You liked that huh? A perfect world would be boring because I wouldnt be looking forward to knowing more about this particular girl to feed the "first-site-butterflys curiousity" so to speak. But a perfect world would be good for 100 billion more important reasons in these times. Its ashame we all cant have it both ways.........