What's my problem...

[meesterperfect]

Youre thinking to much Boy .
Don't let some young girl get you all messed up.
When you think the time is right, ask her to go do something with you, but don't wait too long, strike while the iron is hot or at least warm.
Her response will set you free be it negative or positive,
And that's all.

 

[mrtrebus]

So either I'm a moron or just a weirdo, but either way I need to know.

I just started community college a couple weeks back, and so far I'm glad that I signed up. In one of my classes there is a very pretty girl that I kind of had a crush on from the start. I will admit that it was for no apparent reason, and that is typical of me. One time a guy behind me was flirting with her and I was just wishing it could be me. Well on Monday, she randomly started talking to me in the hallway and I can safely say that I NEVER have connected or communicated with a girl that well before. We talked for awhile, up until the teacher made everyone stop talking. It was the best conversation I have ever had with a girl, hands down. We didn't get to talk much more that class but when it was over we told each other that we'd see each other on Wednesday (today) and were happy about it.

Over the past few days I thought about her a LOT. I was very eager to talk to her again and get to know her better. My day started off crappy...the bus was ten minutes late and stopped a lot which caused me to be late for my first class. But while leaving my first class, I actually passed by the girl. All we really did was say hi and smile, but she seemed very happy to see me. She said she'd see me later.

Now maybe it was wrong of me, but while waiting for class I kinda expected her to stand next to me in the hallway and talk to me. But she didn't...she stood with a dude inbetween us. So I walked over to her and started talking to her. I feel like maybe that was a bit too much? Anyway, that guy ended up butting in and had a long conversation with her. He seemed like a total doofus imo...cussed a lot, sounded like a dweeb, looked like he didn't know what a hairbrush is :hatsoff: , etc...but she seemed to connect even better with him so I didn't say anything for awhile.

All three of us talked for awhile, the guy and I shook hands, but I couldn't really relate to what they were talking about. This continued throughout class. She didn't say any "see you next time" type stuff to me either...she was too busy ignoring me while she chatted with the guy as they left the room

Obviously there are other girls. But obviously this effected me if I'm writing a long obnoxious post about it too. Do you think she can tell that I get super jealous when she chats with other guys? Maybe she likes that fact? Maybe she just connects super well with every guy? Or did I get a bit too bold walking up on her? Or my biggest fear, maybe she didn't like me at all, and wanted to throw that out the window?

You aren't even going out with her & yet you get "super jealous when she chats with other guys". :dunno: Phew, she's probably had a lucky escape. Sorry but that's what I think.

 

[grower_boy]

Now in part because The Orange Cat wants to make fun of it, and in part because I want to say how this all played out...I'm giving this a.....HI YA...bump into modern times.


Throughout March and April, I tried my best to get to know her better. I'd always get excited to see her. On one of the last days of the semester, I asked her if she wanted to go to this concert with me. She said she probably had to work that day, but if she didn't then she would want to go. She also gave me her number. I will forever respect her for not being rude to me because she could tell I was nervous as hell. Two weeks later (which was two days ago), we had our final exam. That's gonna be the last time I ever see her. I texted her yesterday but she ignored me. :dunno:

All I can say is that she was something special. Go ahead and call me a pussy or whatever, but usually when a girl ignores me messages or something, I get all pissed off and start throwing the b-word around. There was just something about her that I can't put my finger on, that made her the best girl I've ever met.

And for the record, that "dweeb" wasn't a dweeb at all. I got to know him pretty well, and he turned out to be a cool guy.

 

[Rey C.]

You never asked her out to a casual lunch? :dunno:

And why is this going to be the last time you see her? Is she graduating or is one of you transferring to a different school?

But anyway, it really does sound like she was playing head games with you or just being a flirt. Yeah, girls will do that sometimes. Some just like the attention and get a kick out of stringing guys along. As "special" as you may have thought she was, I promise you, there are about ten thousand out there just as "special" as she was. And the cool thing is, the assembly line is cranking out thousands more by the day!

 

[Shifty]

Now in part because The Orange Cat wants to make fun of it, and in part because I want to say how this all played out...I'm giving this a.....HI YA...bump into modern times.

Throughout March and April, I tried my best to get to know her better. I'd always get excited to see her. On one of the last days of the semester, I asked her if she wanted to go to this concert with me. She said she probably had to work that day, but if she didn't then she would want to go. She also gave me her number. I will forever respect her for not being rude to me because she could tell I was nervous as hell. Two weeks later (which was two days ago), we had our final exam. That's gonna be the last time I ever see her. I texted her yesterday but she ignored me. :dunno:

All I can say is that she was something special. Go ahead and call me a pussy or whatever, but usually when a girl ignores me messages or something, I get all pissed off and start throwing the b-word around. There was just something about her that I can't put my finger on, that made her the best girl I've ever met.

And for the record, that "dweeb" wasn't a dweeb at all. I got to know him pretty well, and he turned out to be a cool guy.

Who says it's the last time you'll ever see her? Why don't you just call her and ask her out? What do you have to lose at this point? It's funny with these things - she may be wondering why the heck you never asked her out in the first place!

My point is simply not to give up if you like this girl.

 

[grower_boy]

You never asked her out to a casual lunch? :dunno:

No, but I guess I should have.

And why is this going to be the last time you see her? Is she graduating or is one of you transferring to a different school?

But anyway, it really does sound like she was playing head games with you or just being a flirt. Yeah, girls will do that sometimes. Some just like the attention and get a kick out of stringing guys along. As "special" as you may have thought she was, I promise you, there are about ten thousand out there just as "special" as she was. And the cool thing is, the assembly line is cranking out thousands more by the day!

Yeah, she's going to a different school.

She seemed to like playing head games with me because it seemed like on day she was really into me and then the next time I saw her she wasn't. Also, when we would make eye contact it definitely wasn't "normal" lol. But I hope you're right about there being more "special" girls out there. I just usually have a tough time connecting with girls. I usually just want to have sex with them and that's it, because I usually don't feel an emotional connection.

Who says it's the last time you'll ever see her? Why don't you just call her and ask her out? What do you have to lose at this point? It's funny with these things - she may be wondering why the heck you never asked her out in the first place!

My point is simply not to give up if you like this girl.

I could - I just figured that if she doesn't want to go to that concert with me and doesn't want to answer a damn text message, that's her way of telling me she isn't interested.