would you cheat on your wife/girlfriend?

[nightowl]

although i'm happy i do sometimes miss the thrill of the chase, the excitement of fresh pussy, of enjoying a sexy body for the first time. how many guys on here think about being unfaithful and how many would go through with it?

 

[busenbust]

Think? Yes. Enact? Nope.

 

[paveman]

Think? Yes. Enact? Nope.

Same here...

 

[AndyHunter]

No Way!! She is the love of my life - I'd never do that to her.

 

[mentalman]

Think? Yes. Enact? Nope.

Same here...

Add me to the list.

 

[nelmes69]

Noway! Never ever! My wife is hot why would I want too? :shock:
Yes I'm on here looking at naked babes. But looking and touching are poles apart!

 

[busenbust]

Think? Yes. Enact? Nope.

Reason? In the event of being 'caught out' I'd get my balls get cut off:1orglaugh



::o

 

[BlueBalls]

I would, if only to contract and then give to her a nice aggressive STD and then bask in the glory of the sheer awkwardness, anger and hatred that would follow.

 

[lostwood_7]

nope...

 

[bigwarmload]

(Perhaps a better Question) Wonder what people would say if rather:

- 100% Chance you would not get caught in any way
- 100% Chance it would not cause issues in present relationship
- 100% Chance of no STDs
- 100% Chance of no psycho follow-ups/stalking/phone calls/pop-ins
- etc...

How many would do it then? :dunno:

 

[Montrealman]

Would you like that happen to you?

I could not ever cheat on my girl.

 

[busenbust]

(Perhaps a better Question) Wonder what people would say if rather:

- 100% Chance you would not get caught in any way
- 100% Chance it would not cause issues in present relationship
- 100% Chance of no STDs
- 100% Chance of no psycho follow-ups/stalking/phone calls/pop-ins
- etc...

How many would do it then? :dunno:

-Still no.
-Still no.
-Still no.
-Still no.


So, it's a NO.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

Not at all.

There will always be looking. Even thoughts. There is a different, though, between looking at and looking for.

Cheating is just simply horrible and cruel...

 

[~~whimsy~~]

Damn that double post beast under the forum pages!

 

[bigwarmload]

Would you like that happen to you? I could not ever cheat on my girl.

Not at all. There will always be looking. Even thoughts. There is a different, though, between looking at and looking for. Cheating is just simply horrible and cruel...

I agree totally people. I just thought it would be interesting to see if anyone would then change there response. Looking and acting out are really one in the same however, as the most basic intention of your heart is still the same, even if not acted upon. So to be totally faithful you would have to dismiss looking/lusting as well, in all honesty. I am sure if you sat around watching TV, or out in public pointing out all the women you feel are "hot/sexy" "Wow check her out" to your partner, that would not feel to great for her, likewise is she did the same would you feel good/confident about things? Your not actually acting out with the other person physically, your merely expressing an inward feeling or emotion out loud. No harm done?

So then, what is the difference in acting and thinking, whether disclosed or undisclosed or caught vs not being caught? In essence they are one in the same, except one yeilds direct response, while the other may or may not.

Just some thoughts/things to ponder/discus. :dunno: :wave2: :fight:

 

[busenbust]

"So then, what is the difference in acting and thinking..."

^I suspect, well for myself anyhow, that if your partner also thinks about having an affair but does not act upon the desire, perhaps that balances things out???

Probably not (and in any case, how would one know). All I know is: I would indeed have my balls cut off!!!

 

[Baill Inneraora]

I’ve always been a dog, but I have 0.0 interest in cheating on my current g/f and future wife.

 

[Jagger69]

The answer is no. Perhaps I'm a bit old fashioned but I take my marriage covenant literally. I don't see porn as cheating. We all have fantasies. As longs as it stays that way, I see no problem.

 

[busenbust]

^^Indeed. One solution: prenuptials?? Oh Jesus...

 

[~~whimsy~~]

I agree totally people. I just thought it would be interesting to see if anyone would then change there response. Looking and acting out are really one in the same however, as the most basic intention of your heart is still the same, even if not acted upon. So to be totally faithful you would have to dismiss looking/lusting as well, in all honesty. I am sure if you sat around watching TV, or out in public pointing out all the women you feel are "hot/sexy" "Wow check her out" to your partner, that would not feel to great for her, likewise is she did the same would you feel good/confident about things? Your not actually acting out with the other person physically, your merely expressing an inward feeling or emotion out loud. No harm done?

So then, what is the difference in acting and thinking, whether disclosed or undisclosed or caught vs not being caught? In essence they are one in the same, except one yeilds direct response, while the other may or may not.

Just some thoughts/things to ponder/discus. :dunno: :wave2: :fight:

People will always look. Whether it be hot celebrity, hot woman/man jogging down the street, anywhere there is a gorgeous woman/man.

Women look at men, too! Door swings both ways.

Thing is, if you trust and understand nothing will happen, why get all bent out of shape over nothing?

It doesn't have anything to do regarding being faithful or unfaithful just because you look at some hot body if should come by your way.

Either confident and trusting in knowing that your loved one is not going do that. I've been cheated on a couple times, it sucked, but moved on. Dumped them, kicked them out of my life, and moved on.

I am not going to be going around afraid or any of that crap. when I am in a relationship I still look at a hot body I see where one might be, but that does not mean I am going to be trying get in their pants first chance I get when my loved one is away.

Looking at and looking for is what it boils down.

You either trust or don't.