Judging by the posts in this thread, everyday clothing that is sexy can be summed up by saying...women who wear tight fitted clothing AND have the body for it, is sexy...what I surprise.
Just about most clothes women usually wear that men also wear are tight-fitted. Trousers, hooded tops, Jeans, shorts, short jeans (which are tighter and shorter). Women are biologically inclined to display their bodies, it's been happening so long many of them have become unaware of it. It's like when women say they don't dress up for men, but to compete with other women. Of course they do, they're competing with other women...for desirable men (emphasis on DESIRABLE).
Definitely. If we were all dressing solely for our own comfort and didn't care at all what others thought, we would all be walking around in baggy sweatpants and loose tshirts or something of that nature.
I absolutely do dress to please others, and that's ok. There's nothing wrong with that. There are just certain areas in which I won't go as far, such as bikini styles. My boyfriend would love it if I wore a thong bikini to the beach, but I don't want to do that, so instead I opt for a regular two piece bikini. I'm still not going to wear a one piece though, because I want to look sexy and show some skin. And the dresses, shirts, and jeans that I choose are both for my benefit and to attract the attention of others, as well as not make other women feel uncomfortable (which is part of the reason I won't wear a thong bikini- I view it as kind of inconsiderate toward other women and their boyfriends), yet I'm still going to wear the colors that I like.
I think if more women who wore leggings were willing to admit that they are in fact wearing them because it makes their asses look fantastic (seriously, it does) rather than claiming it's only due to comfort, I'd probably be more accepting of it. It's just kind of dumb to pretend you're wearing them because they're comfortable, because you know full well they make you look awesome. There's nothing wrong with dressing to look attractive. We all do it. But to lie about it? No. Stupid. Makes no sense. Maybe they
are comfortable, but that's definitely not the sole reason women wear them.
Here's a secret, most men are checking out women almost every time (whether in a relationship or not)...I'll even go as far to say we do it unconsciously and have to make a strong conscious effort not to. This has no bearing to our commitment (or lack of) to our partner or girlfriend.
It's one thing to take a quick glance, but the thoughts should be kept to yourselves and there's no reason to actively act like a pervert. It's disrespectful to your girlfriend, makes her feel uncomfortable and inadequate, and that should be the last thing anyone wants to do. Sure, we all take a peek every now and then, but to outright stare and oggle is kind of messed up, at least to me.
Of course, I've been cheated on and left for other girls by the vast majority of my boyfriends, so I have bigger trust and self esteem issues than most. The worry is always in the back of my mind. Act like a gentleman, make me feel like you only have eyes for me, and give me no reason to be jealous, and I'll be perfectly happy.
Borderline? Maybe for another thread?
